I am a 53 year old female who carries a few extra pounds. I'm not fat, but could be a little more fit. I have curves in the right places. My problem is I have dressed conservatively for so many years, that I no longer know how to kick it up a notch to dress for a man. I do NOT want to let it all hang out, but am curious as to any tips that may help me get noticed. I have long hair, a medium brown, and green eyes. I have a nice face and am rather tall so I don't wear heeles that are too high...usually 2-3 inches is my limit. I am not into short skirts or wearing shorts in public. So what will help me get noticed? Jewelry? Lipstick? Attitude? I usually wear jeans and a nice shirt when I go out....but feel invisible. Help me out, I want to get some attention when I'm out with my girlfriends.