what to say

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  1. youngboy933

    youngboy933 New Member

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    I was wondering if anyone here had ideas of what I should else to say while just making out instead of you're amazing, I love you, you're so sexy. What are some things you say that are non- dirty? By non-dirty I mean not like I wanna fuck you so bad and stuff like that
     
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    Be specific regarding what you enjoy about her!

    If you love her eyes, let her know. "Wow, your eyes are incredible."
    If you think her lips are sexy, let her know, "I love kissing your sexy lips, they're so soft..."
    If you love her hands, let her know, "Damn, girl your hands feel good.."
    If you love her legs, let her know, "Wow.. those legs drive me wild..", etc, etc.

    These kinds of comments will make her feel glowingly good about those parts of her that make you extra weak, and chances are she'll play them up for you in the future. :brow That's a win-win situation for both of you. :)
     
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    NK is so right. My man always gives me an ego boost, and he always gets a reward later. :)
     
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    I would probably say something funny, but there have been times when that has killed the mood.
     
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    thank you for who have responded
    NK I like those ideas a lot, does anyone else have anything else i could say or sexy names i could call her that aren't too dirty
     
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    I have a very romantic man in my life.....not sure whether anyone else speaks like this in our modern age...but i find his style of speaking totally delightful...

    "Woman of love"
    "Beauty Eternal"
    "Woman of depth and passion"
    "Love Priestess"
    "High Priestess"
    "The Devil's Sweetest" lol
    "Beloved woman"
    "Love lady"
    "Love woman"
    "Woman of Pluto"
    "Woman I adore"

    :)
     
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    SexyScorp, you are quite well versed in the language of LOVE! Do you do any tutoring on the side??????LMAO!!!!
     
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    hahahaa....that is why I am called the lovewoman

    Yes I do tutoring on the side lol

    I work as a healer and offer intuitive readings for women and their
    love "problems"

    And as you can see I have attracted some very romantic influences into
    my life....

    In our next life...myself and the young man mentioned above will be married
    in a small church....I dressed in medieaval full length red velvet and him in dark
    blue velvet....he shall kneel in front of me and promise to love me eternally.......

    and then I shall kick him in the teeth....

    lol...

    YES YES YES i am very very very romantic and well versed in the language of love....but at times it is tinged with a hint of darkness...

    keeps one on "the edge" so to speak..

    :)

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    thats my kind of woman!!!!
     
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    I'll go against the grain here and say keep talking to an absolute minimum.

    Frankly, I think your tongues and mouths should be too busy doing other things at that stage.
     
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    So many women may disagree with the NX.....although I can only speak for the few hundred I have had this discussion with....

    Not all, but lots of women are very turned on by words...if not why would so many women these days sustain internet love affairs......when all they have is words....

    Mute sex does absolutely nothing for me...

    But then that is just me :)
     
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    :)
     
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    Well, I have no problem with talking during sex or making out, provided the talk is sexually related in some way. But I find the over top romantic talk to be silly.

    If I busted out with any of these during sex or making out..

    Not only would I not be able to keep a straight face, but my wife and I would probably both start laughing hysterically which would kill the sexual mood.

    There is nothing wrong with them, per se, particularly if they work for you, but I think most people are going to find that sorta thing jarring or silly.

    Compliment your girl, sure, if you need something to say other than talking about the dirty things you want to do with eachother, but don't start spouting poetry or coming up with silly names.

    I don't know what age you and your girl are, but I think most younger girls would find it a little weird if you started busting out with all that.
     
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    I am in my 40s

    Extremely romantic

    and I am a woman.....a full and sensous woman....


    of Pluto


    lol!!!!!

    Its okay man.....I am a little bit strange and the young guy that said these
    things to me is on the same "strange" wavelength...its bliss when you meet
    another nutter aint it? :)

    We are into days of old.......we remember past lives and stuff......

    I dont mind you taking the piss.....

    OFF WITH HIS HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hehe
     
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    I think its great you guys are into that together like that, even if it isn't my cup of tea. :)

    I just think that, if anything, its something that couple probably has to ease into, and just not have the guy start in with that stuff out of the blue.
     
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    We are just MAD!!!!!!

    I aint never met him...he is my overseas friend....do you reckon
    if I met and he said those things I would burst out laughing or say
    "feck off"

    haha!!!!

    Probably not!!!