What to do

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  1. wowzer

    wowzer New Member

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    my bf has been kind of a dick lately...sex and communication have been off. I've tried just about everything. I am kind of attracted to a friend of ours who we've messed with in past. He's been super cool and is not only super cute but has a huge dick he's not afraid to share :p. I kno i may sound a bit superficial but not getting any from my bf and him being a dick has left me pissed and horny and I was wondering if it would be wrong to leave him for this friend? I believe the attraction between us is mutual
     
  2. Mittimer

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    Leaving him for his friend would be a bitch move.

    Leaving him because he's an asshole to you and you're unhappy and then subsequently moving on to the friend, less bitchy
     
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    I agree, but I've known plenty of people who won't leave partner number 1 until they're sure they've snared partner number 2. :eyes
     
  4. wowzer

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    yea i just dont know what else i can do
     
  5. Dragon_Fire

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    The "right" thing to do would be to separate and spend some time on your own but then we humans don't always do what's right do we?
     
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    Have you talked to your current boyfriend about his actions towards you? What is he doing that makes you say he's being a dick?
     
  7. wowzer

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    yea hes constantly going out with his friends when i try to make plans. Previosuly i planned a special night for us and tried to get all kinky cuz he likes that. After we had sex he went out with his buddies.
     
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    Sounds like he's just using you for sex.
     
  9. wowzer

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    yea thats what im afraid of
     
  10. Beth_UK

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    Just ask yourself this - would you consider dumping him if big-dong wasn't waiting in the wings? If the answer is no, try and work things out with him. If it's yes, then just do it. Life is too short to waste on the wrong one.
    Beth
     
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    There's a quote I read the other day, and I think using it in context with what Beth just said will always give the right answer. The quote is something like, "If you love two people at the same time, choose the one you fell in love with second. Because if you truely loved the first you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second." I've been in too many relationships to count and have to say this, with what Beth said will never steer you wrong.

    Hope this helps and good luck!
     
  12. pawg69lover

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    Yes i would seriously consider leaving your current boyfriend if he's not giving you what you need. Then you'll be single and can enjoy all the big cock that you want! :)