What to do?

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  1. Bretright

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    I was wondering what you would do. I was at a party at my neighbors house with my wife the other night and she went home early. I stayed much later and fell asleep on the couch while others were in the room. I woke up some time later and there was a couple in an overstuffed chair about 10 feet away making out. I watched for a few minutes and dozed off again. When I woke up they were naked and fucking. I was aroused and so I watched. The room was dimly lit so I didnt think they knew I was awake. She was on top and her back was to me. Then they switched around and she was getting it doggy style and she was facing me. At this point I knew she could see me because her face was about 5 feet from me. I just watched her and she smiled. When they finished, I pretended I was asleep so the boyfriend wouldnt know and they went upstairs to shower. Then I left. My wife and I have a very open relationship but without permission, I didnt think I should join in. What would you do?
     
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    I think that's a no-brainer, and you picked the right answer. Doesn't mean I wouldn't want to, just that I have enough sense not to.
     
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    ^ What he said.

    Not to mention, there's a difference in being open and keeping secrets. Is this something you would have wanted your wife to do in your shoes?
     
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    How do you get into these situations!?!? lol over and over, at least you make the right decision every time you post these experiences
     
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    I would have gone home with my wife in the first place.
     
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    Yeah re-reading it, i agree with backcheck. You come as a couple leave acouple
     
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    You weren't invited to join in, so there isn't really a question about that. This is the second thread of yours that I've read. In the other one too, you saw somebody going at it and you asked us if you did the right thing by not joining in. But you weren't invited to join in that time either. What I think I'm seeing is the influence of porn. In porn, people always join in, and the other people never say, "Hey! What the fuck do you think you're doing?!"
     
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    like kermit said, you sure do have a lot of shit like this happening to you.

    it makes me wonder why you have to keep asking for advice when everyone pretty much tells you the same thing everytime.

    but i don't remember you and your wife's relationship to be very open
     
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    wisdom beyond your years!

    well stated.
     
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    Just once, though, I'd like to see that.
     
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    the next thing would be two guys trading punches with their hardons flailing around. LOL:eek
     
  12. Bretright

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    The reason I ask is because I do not believe we have a normal relationship at all. Our relationship has evolved from a very square one when we got married to us trying kinky things in the bedroom to her girlfriend having sex with us. We have formed new friendships with younger couples and have found that some of them are into sharing. I have become a complete horndog and am having alot of fun but I have to be careful not to get myself into trouble.
     
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    I don't get marrying someone thats that square or vanilla to begin with. We were and still do have chandellier swinging sex, I wouldn't marry less, but never needed outside "help".
     
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    lol. Well I don't know about wanting to join or being aroused.. I mean being indirectly involved in a sexual encounter is awkward. I was wasted Christmas break visiting old friends. I past out early off to the side of my friend's bed. I wake up in the middle of the night to the bed nudging into the side of me as his gf is getting roughly fucked. Making a disturbing story short I was too close for comfort and felt too awkward getting up in the middle of the act. Being in someone else's bedroom really gives you some insight to how big freaks some are.. Not saying I'm not one of them:eyes I'm here aint I lol