What to do

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Bretright, Mar 23, 2011.

  1. Bretright

    Bretright New Member

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    I went out with the guys the other night and I came home a little buzzed. I saw my wife asleep on the couch so I stripped my clothes off and snuck in under the blankets. I reached around and started rubbing her tits and shoved my hard dick up against her ass and then realized this was not my wife. It turns out, her best friend was having her apartment painted and was staying the night. Well, she turned over and was about as shocked as I was but she asked me in a playful way. What are you doing? and then she grabbed my dick. Well my first thought was yippee, but then I pulled away and told her I thought she was my wife. I immediately took a shower and went to bed but the question remains......what should I have done. I should say that I realize I am married, but I have had a threesome with this girl and my wife in the past, but I have never had sex with her without my wife.
     
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    you did the right thing..
    never been in that situation before but i would have done the same
     
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    I'd tell the wife and be upfornt about it. I take it you had no prior knowledge of her stayover.
     
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    Yep, just tell her right away. You didn't do anything intentionally wrong so she shouldn't be upset.
     
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    Hopefully she'll see she has a good man dedicated to her :) and a lesser man would have just said "she grabbed my dick, what was i susposed to do!??!"
     
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    No, I had no idea.
     
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    You did the right thing by not having sex with her. You should tell your wife though just so her friend doesn't tell her first and she gets pissed at you. It being an honest mistake and you not going any further your wife shouldn't get mad at you.
     
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    Yeah so she doesn't spin it if she's one to do that.
     
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    wow....what a night. well you did the right thing, tell your wife straight out and dont let her friend tell her first, cause shes more than likely thinking about it too.and will twist words to make it sound like you knew it was her...
     
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    Yup tell the wife and be upfront about it..

    You definitely did the right thing by not sleeping with her. But how could you not notice it wasn't your wife.. and she must've been pretty quick to grab your cock..
     
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    I can only echo everyone else. You made an honest mistake, and did the right thing upon realization of what happened. I'm pretty sure your wife would probably just be amused, but grateful of your honesty as well. And who knows, maybe you'll get another threesome out of it eh?
     
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    Good point, I don't care how buzzed I am, I know the feel of my wifes body in a second, the smell, the posture. I could tell her from another woman in total darkness. Maybe you need to curb the alcohol intake.
     
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    That's quite the situation to get yourself in.. the girl must of been pretty easy going by nature because I know most likely if you bust that on most sleeping women that more than likely a lawsuit going to ensue when you stick your dick next to their sleeping ass.
     
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    Yea maybe so.. and I also wouldn't mistake someone else for my SO..
     
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    um, well if your wife doesn't know about it then you'd be cheating. cheating is bad. how would you feel if your wife just slept with your best friend behind your back?
     
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    Ok. To Bretright: I think you made the right choice. Better to back off when you're not sure than to loose your chance in the future. Swinger's law.

    Hmmm. Agreed. I too would immediately know I wasn't with my wife. No matter how inebriated I was. Are you telling us everything? :lol

    To nyxx: Psst! Read this.

     
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    what am i supposed to read? that he and his wife had a 3some? my point was that if his wife didn't know he had sex with that girl alone, its cheating. at least thats what i define as cheating.
     
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    absolutely agree! If her friend tells her she will think u were keeping it from her.