Here is my dillema... last night was my first time doing any kind of sexual act. Oral and Mutual masturbation. I had a great time and was very aroused... but I generally take an hour or more to Orgasm. and she was done in 20 minutes. So we spent the next, nearly two hours trying to give me an Orgasm. in the end her arms were so tired and her jaw so sore I had to finish on my own. So, I ask this as a guy, seeking a girls perspective. how can We make her last longer and me last less long? I'm still a Virgin in terms of penetration. and I had never done any of this stuff before last night. I just figured with a girl present my time frame would speed up! not slow down! I need to not last as long in bed! help!?