We haven't had sex in five days. He has teased me though and then never follows through. He's either playing his game or falls asleep. Like today. We got home from visiting my grandma and we talked about having sex when we got home. I told him I was going to put the baby down and I waited for him after the baby was asleep. He was playing his game. I wound up falling asleep waiting for him. He didn't notice until later and he already saw me sleeping so he continued to play his game. I've noticed that it seems like he only wants sex when we can't have it. Or after talking to him or complaining about sex. I've tried talking to him about it before and today. He just thinks that it's not a big deal and it will blow over when we have sex. The problem is that he won't have sex with me unless I say something about it. I have to initiate or complain. It seems like he doesn't want me. I even went as far being as frustrated as I am told him to go have sex with someone else that maybe he would be happier then. I feel like just a mother and a maid. I don't feel like a wife. We have had this problem many times before we even had our child so that can't be it. We've spiced up our sex life with toys and such and it only works for so long. I've tried being sexy, bjs, etc but it never seems to work long. I just don't understand and it makes me really upset and feel like shit.