Hi Friends I have been undergoing through a problem. I am a recently married guy (arranged marriage). I am doing my post graduation abroad. I used to have phone calls with my wife before marriage nearly 7 months. I asked her to come online but she never came and I had to satisfy with her photos only. She is also educated and I thought it is ok with my parents that she is educated and active. So without looking for any bad things of hers I got married. My wife used to let excessive foreplay but she never let me to have intercourse. She would let me to remove her bra but when I attempted to remove her lower undergarment she told she felt embarassed. I was surprised that why did she let me to remove her upper undergarment and initiate foreplay and why upon trying to remove lower one she is feeeling that embarassed. For one day it was ok but why for months. I was her husband why did I have sexless marriage. I even sopke to her about several times preventive measures to be taken for intercourse and that we will not have child soon. Once she acted so aggressively that she scratched me behind my back with her nails and told that she is not abnormal. We even went for honeymoon but all my efforts was useless. If this had been a case that she had not known me then I had been calling her from abroad several times for 7 months before marriage and I even asked her to come to have webcam chat but she always denied. Though we never had sex she was once asking if my underwear was wet or not with semen. Before marriage and after marriage I have never found that love, bond between us though I always cared her. I have never found myself in her. Once I found 3 IV syringes in my room when she was away. Later i came to know it was to be used by drug addict. I am surprised why is she behaving differently. Is she having some problems or she is cheating me and my family? What should I do?