What should I do to make my SO desire me? I do bj, and it works, but I'd like to know what else I could do, because the bj, mostly, ends with him cumming and nothing for me. Is there something a woman can do to make a man want to please her? I know I sound very egoistic, wanting to get something in return, but bear with me, please. edit: I'm not fat, nor uggly.