What personality type are you attracted to?

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  1. Jeff Powers

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    On forums like this we can get so caught up in the physical aspect of sex/relationships, but as most of us realize, personality and overall chemistry go a long way toward attraction too. How many of us have been around super-hot or stunningly beautiful men/women, but the personality and overall vibe just wasn't happening? So, how would you describe your general personality and what type do you tend to be attracted to?
     
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    Confidence
     
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    My personality is easy going and love to please.
    I'm very attracted to dominant personalities and confidence.
     
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    Confident, dirty minded, ambitious, hard working, sport loving, fun, easy going.
     
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    I don't like describing myself.
    I'm attracted to guys who have their shit together, are easygoing, and have a sense of humor.
     
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    I like to have fun, tease people and get into some friendly banter back and forth.
    Get bored easy though so need ongoing stimulation or I am onto the next thing.
     
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    exactly my thoughts. same.
     
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    Call me strange (and most people normally do), but I'm drawn to women who come across as vulnerable. There's something about that which just makes me want to protect them and make them feel better about themselves.
     
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    I'm a bit of all the above. But personality and demeanor tops the list in what I look for in a woman.

    As for me, quiet, laid back and working towards my retirement goals.
     
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    Hard to tell on here but I would much rather be with someone that is not a flaming bitch or dumb as a post. Anyplace in-between is probably ok.
     
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    the older i've become the more i became attracted to intelligent women with a sense of humor! this started for me in my early 40's and persists to this day. a hot body is nice but i'll trade it fro the two traits i mentioned. physically i've always liked ladies with a little padding on them and that's how i describe mrsbiker, as well as the other two things!
     
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    fun to be with and good sense of humor
    not the jealous type
    a person who takes care of them self
    a person who is Confident about them self
    someone who respects you and others
     
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    Top on my list of attributes in the attraction of the opposite sex; passionate and tactile.
     
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    I'd say I'm the quiet confidence type. I have a thing for smart women, along with a sense of humor and naughty party-girl side that likes to come out occasionally.
     
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    cool, chilled out vibes, but also conscientious, thoughtful, and sweet.
     
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    I'm attracted to older mature men with a muscular build. :)
     
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    :):):)
     
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    I know of a few guys that fit that description that would like to meet you
     
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    I am laid back, and a little shy. I can be a little silly.
    I like some who's intelligent, who has a sense of humor and can carry a good conversation.
     
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    so, would you like to have dinner? go dancing??? get spanked??? :)
     
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