What makes a woman....

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  1. melicious

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    What makes a woman a good lover? What does a woman do to make you say that she is good in bed? A friend and I were discussing this earlier, and I'm curious about others' responses......
     
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    Knowing, and telling your lover what you want.
    Being confident about every move you make on your partner.
    When it's over, you KNOW you were more than he/she could ever imagine.

    jmho :rose
     
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    a girl who puts your pleasure, & happiness, above everything else, & gently, & sweetly makes love to you, is, in my opinion, the best lover in the world\even if she is awkward, & doesnt quite know what she is doing, if she is just really nice to you, thats the best\people make too much of an "expert technique" - if thats all you care about, you might as well be made love to by a machine\
     
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    to me, it's not about the quantity or quality. more about the creativeness, language, desire, lust, openness.
     
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    When a woman knows all the things that I like, proactively gives me what I like, and enjoys the hell out of pleasing me....

    ...that's...... wow....

    I used to have that with an ex-gf of mine long ago.
     
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    Passion is my answer to that. Nothing is better than pure passion.
     
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    Having a partner who is "into it" as much as you are.
     
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    oh yea igor i guess I forgot that part , passion works best if it is felt between both equally
     
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    Well, passion and being into it I think are a lot alike. When you masturbate there is no passion but you do get sexual release. It can be the same way dirung sex if there is no passion - then it's just mechanical. But I think the ideal situation is when both partners are similarly enthused about what they are experiencing.
     
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    What makes a good lover??? For me it is as much about her sexual talents as it is not. There has to be a connection for one, getting to know what she likes, and what she doesn't; and for her to get to know what I like....

    She has to be a little more open(sexually) than the average Jane......There MUST be passion when kissing, and when giving oral...it is always better if she wants/loves to do it; than just one of the steps to sexual penetration.

    Body type/size is not a factor, as long as she is comfortable with herself....when she gets really into it, so do I ......and then the sparks really begin to fly....

    Something Different in the sexual position dept is always good, just not the good old missionary........more like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, 69, doggie......

    If there is a connection on more than just a friendly level, that is the most important for me...When I know she really wants to play.....sexual tension I guess.......it doesn't matter if or when we play, it can be just as rewarding.
     
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    Passion and really being able to just "let go" and not hold anything back. I also personally like her to be loud as she wants.
     
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    It's a delicious event when a woman doesn't hold anything back, isn't it? Takes a good deal of trust.
     
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    Yes I abolutely love to see a woman losing her mind in her orgasm and I will encourage her vocally to let it all out. Orgasm is one of the greatest forms of primal release and from the first time I saw a girl cum I was totally hooked on the female orgasm :brow
     
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    Well, I've been with my husband for nearly 12 years, and he is just now enjoying my FULL trust/full and uninhibited release.

    The oldest knocked on the door. "Mommy? Is God really in there?"
     
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    Trust is a huge issue....when a lover trusts you completely, all barriers can come down and you can just enjoy it all......When you trust someone so completely that you can tell them your sexual fantasies and explore them, that IS something truely special......

    Dvus
     
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    :lol very good
     
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    Trust me, it's a real mood killer.
     
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    Oh, Mel! I'm dying here! :rofl I don't have kids at home anymore, but if they were here, they'd think I was having quite a religious experience in the bedroom, as well!

    You absolutely have to bring back the thread titled "Out of the Mouths of Babes", and put that in there! That is CLASSIC!!
     
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    Love making is so dependent on each other, the energy , passion and erotic enjoyment feeds off of each other, when she enjoys it I enjoy it more