What makes a woman sexy?

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  1. sankay

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    What are they in denial about?
     
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    That it is the "confidence" they can "see" in a naked woman's picture what they're finding sexy.
     
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    Darn...so when they're telling me my pics are sexy because of the confidence I have it's just kind of bullshit...? ;-(
     
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    It could be the 1%.
     
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    I think sexually aggressive women are sexy as hell.
     
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    Not BS so much as a way to legitimize their lust without seeming shallow. Like how many women explain away their preference for wealthy men, as them being attracted to their "drive" or "ambition".
     
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    Hmmmmm....
     
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    I don't agree with that, a wealthy man or woman does normally have drive and ambition (unless born with a silver spoon in their mouth) and confidence is sexy and I (and most men and women) don't have to pretend or legitimize anything in their preferences for the opposite or same sex... We lust for what we want and often that is a confident and secure partner. That confidence can come across in photos, sometimes it feels staged in porn but in amateur pics personality is harder to forge.
     
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    I think it's amazing how diverse our attractions are. For me, it's confidence and having a great attitude. It is far more important to me that the lady be highly sexual and confident in her sexuality.
     
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    That is a Big turn on!
     
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    It really is. What is any sexier than a lady sexually going after what she wants in order to meet her own sexual needs. Great sex is the result of the partners passionately giving and taking as needed without (reasonable) limitations.
     
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    So True!!!!
     
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    Allow me to contribute to the echo chamber... :D

    Confidence, being forward and open sexually, knowing herself and what she wants (in general; not just sexually), intelligence, and a personality that complements my own -- all are highly appealing and sexy attributes in a woman.

    However! I'd be lying if I didn't include physical attractiveness in there, too. All the rest can take you very far - almost to the top - but if there's no physical spark, then it just doesn't work. Fortunately for me, I have diverse taste in the women I find attractive. Although, as time goes by, I'm finding that I have a few "types" that I seem to gravitate towards. :p
     
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    When she's confident in bed and doesn't get hung up on every flaw on her body. Guess what? Most guys don't care that your ass is big, you have stretch marks, (insert body issue here).
     
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    I like that ..no I love that answer!....if we could only believe it....:rolleyes::(
     
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    secure, being comfortable (and I'll add trust) I think are huge components of feeling sexy, couldn't agree more @Sexy Strip :)
     
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    @domburns is correct. No woman is perfect, but if she can just get naked and have fun without worrying about, or trying to hide (whatever imperfection). I can see with your clothes on that you have a pooch, or that your boobs will sag. Don't just pull up your skirt over your middle. If your belly bothered me, I wouldn't be between your legs. Don't leave your bra hooked and just pull it down. Unless you are very young, I expect your boobs to sag. Don't make the room totally dark and/or stay under the sheets. If you've lived life, you have scars, stretchmarks and other battle scars. Relax and enjoy. It's the best.

    xx
     
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    Women are just fucking sexy..... All women have something ( could be 20 things or it could be 1 thing) sexual about them. Personality, ass, boobs, the way they talk, their mouths, lips, assertiveness,etc etc etc

    I desire something about all of them, and when your with someone new or with your wife of 20 yrs, it's like Christmas morning. You have no idea what kind of surprise you are going to get!
     
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    Looks get me to approach, but attitude keeps me cuming around...
     
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    Everything !
     
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