What makes a woman sexy?

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  1. Nakedwalker

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    Everyone has their own image/definition of what is "sexy." It's difficult to to explain but they know it when they see it.
     
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    Yes.. I can see that... kind of like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"....
     
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    I think that someone's body and face determine their sexiness, and their personality their attractiveness.
     
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    I think I would flip flop that. There are plenty of attractive women...pretty face, nice body, etc. But I think true sexiness is more of an attitude....comes from the mind and some women just exude "sexy" even if they aren't the most attractive. My opinion....but I agree that the two are completely different things.
     
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    well what ever they are you have plenty of both x
     
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    Right back at you ;) xx
     
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    It can go either way
     
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    Oooo.. I love i love the idea of exuding sexiness.... ;-)
     
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    To me sexiness is a woman's attitude, her intelligence how she carries herself. Looks only go so far. I'll flirt with an attractive woman. But for anything else. I have to be attracted to her mentally. Who and what she is. Truly is what to me makes a woman sexy.
     
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    I like that answer a lot....Nice hearing how a guy thinks about sexiness..the same holds true for me with a guy... good looks are great but without intelligence... and for me ..also a sense of humor the sexiness dissipates quickly....
     
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    I think being sexy is linked to being available. People are resentful of what they can't have and a woman they can't approach may be a turn off for a man.

    Indeed, I also think being confident and sexy go often together. But a person who isn't that confident can also be sexy. A friendly, warm demeanor and honesty are very sexy to me. One who's fragile can be sexy.

    In my case, I don't see confidence in pictures very often. Guys who post a crop of a penis can't be that confident. They're self conscious about the rest of their bodies. Women who take 10000 pictures to choose one to photoshop and post aren't really that confident, either. All the photos we see on magazines are photoshopped.

    I see confidence when I meet a man and he doesn't hide when naked.

    In general, I need time talking to a person to know if he/she is confident.

    Having said all that, I don't need a person to be 100% confident. It's enough to be someone who's willing to try. That's all I can do myself.
     
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    Being confident and comfortable in her on self. That usually gives a lady an ease about her that exudes sexiness. In my opinion that's why it can take a few years before an attractive woman truly becomes sexy. They typically have to get past or learn to deal with the insecurities of their youth.
     
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    A woman can be sexy confident and humble by her actions and how she carries herself in conversation and attitude!...Looks mean nothing..Its whats inside you!
     
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    It's also what is inside her, running down her inner thighs - the scent of a woman in heat is overwhelming
     
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    I find confidence makes a woman sexy. If she knows what she wants and is direct then i am putty in her hands. Powerless against her.
     
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    What makes a woman sexy, for me it is when I feel secure and comfortable in my own skin, I think, and when I am happy and not under a rain cloud. At least for me, it seems like whenever I've tried to be sexy, I feel like a dork. A lot of people will say confidence and I suppose that is one thing about it. But I find I am most sexy when its effortless. I also think for a lot of people it is about looks, some people are just visual creatures I guess.
     
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    What makes a woman sexy, willing to not be a prude, embrace her sexuality, wearing sexy cloths and tries to be seductive
     
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    In Person;
    1) Intelligent/ outgoing enough to carry some of the conversation on relevant/ current topics.
    2) Being comfortable/ confident with who she is and how she looks.
    3) Pleasant to be around.

    Virtual World;
    1) Naked any pose
    2) Near naked in a provocative pose
    3) (did I mention) Naked
     
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    Haha:p to clarify... do you mean
    naked is sexy?:p:)
     
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    Lol
    I think 99% of the guys think like you, about the virtual world, but they're in denial.
     
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