What makes a woman sexy?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by sankay, Feb 19, 2017.

  1. matt2006

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    This discussion came up on chat with a user a couple years ago. Her and I were talking and I told her that a paper bag could be sexy if she was confident in it. She laughed and said challenge excepted. A few days later she posted pics of her in a paper yard waste bag being just as confident and sexy as she would be in heels and stockings. The post was a big hit with lots of comments and likes proving the point.
     
  2. sankay

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    Oooo... I'd like that challenge....
     
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    I'd love to see you in a paper bag hun ;)
     
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    Can I wear heels with it? :)
     
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    Course you can wear heels babe.
    That would really turn me on so bad ;)
     
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    Love to see you naked wearing just a pair of killer heels babe ;) xoxoxo
     
  7. sankay

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    Alright didn't mean to veer the discussion off course..
    Here's another question...
    Can a woman's age exclude her from being considered sexy??
    Can a 90 year old woman be sexy to you?
     
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    Absolutely
     
  9. jay321

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    Of course an older woman can look sexy.
    There is no age limit to beauty.
    If truth be known, I actually prefer older women.
    I have dated older women in the past and definitely would do so again
     
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  10. matt2006

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    Age is just a number a woman can be sexy at any age. I myself dated older women 90% of the time. There was no bs with them unlike younger women. They knew what they wanted and there was no drama.
     
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    For me as a woman ... letting go of shame was a big part of my confidence. Feeling good about my body... my sexuality.. celebrating it...
    Felt so remarkably freeing...:) and sexy!
     
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    Yes. I've been told that.. older woman know what they want... and younger women are just trying to please the guy..
    But that can't be a bad thing can it?
     
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    There needs to be a balance. No one should ever be a sponge when it comes to pleasure. Sexy can go away real fast if the reciprocation effort isn't there. :)
     
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    You should feel great about your body....you are incredibly sexy!!!
     
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    Thank you...
     
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    The way she dresses, not slutty, but attracting attention in the right sexy ways, dressing her age kind of.
    Attitude, not high on herself, but not low either, the right mix, not afraid to have eye contact.
    The way she moves, body language. Again not slutty, but not prude, in a way that makes someone look at her and think of her as sexy.

    In the workplace there are dress codes sometimes, I get that. But the attitude and behavior can convey sexiness too.
     
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    Sensuality has no clock, fit mind fit body counts large !!
     
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    There is a fine line between sexy and slutty....and the whole idea of dressing age appropriate.. I went out a few weeks ago with a dress that was above my knees... no bra, and no panties...slutty??
    Some might think so.. but my husband loved it and that was what was important...and I felt sexy.
    I think older women like myself are dressing more youthful...and not letting their age define their wardrobe...
     
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    OMG!!! I would love to see you in that dress.