[Ask a Girl] What makes a man good in bed?

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  1. Amature

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    I am wondering what qualities do you ladies think makes a man good in bed?
     
  2. CreamyJustice

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    If the position allows it, eye contact is always good. I love to be able to see how hes seeing me completely exposed and vulnerable.

    Being in control is good. And while I know this is a quality men love in women as well, an aggressive man will always be sexy to me.

    A man that knows how to touch me. Know when to smack my ass versus caress my boobs. Or biting nipples versus sucking them....them sensitive days are no joke. Or non-deep days versus balls to the wall days.

    A man that knows how to distribute his body weight so im not carrying his and my weight in certain positions

    A man that loves to kiss or at least doesn't mind when I need to suck his tongue for my own pleasure

    Attentive in that he watches my reaction to the things hes doing to me and saves it in the memory bank for later use.

    A man who overthinks what hes doing or tries super hard to last an extra long time annoys me.

    A man who can tell me how this pussy is making him feel and be vulnerable during...is a complete turn on.
     
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    And this is what makes a woman good in bed. Being THIS in touch with who she is sexually to give a response like this... Nice... Perfect .
     
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    Thank you @CreamyJustice. This is exactly the type of response I was looking for.
     
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    Glad I could be of assistance. I saw the original post and could not resist. Im anxious to see what other responses you get. It's a really good question. I wonder what rubric the men use to classify a woman as good in bed. Theres a lot of people out here thinking theyre the opposite of what their partners experience.

    Knowing is half the battle. Lol.
     
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  6. Alwayslearningsex

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    To add to creamyjustice and 12barblues, it goes both sexes.
    listening to your partner's input, not doing your own way - I had that and it sucks.
    owning your sexuality and be open, no one reads minds.
    knowing your partner - not hopping from one to another
    and more :)
     
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    If he can pull my heart strings,Ill forever play his flute!
     
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    He would make music ;) not necessarily good quality though
     
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    I think in this instance Candela means win her heart and you're already more than half way there. Of course on top of that a guy would need bedroom skills too. But Candelas sentiment is a good one.

    As for the thread in general, creamyjustice summed just about every thing up well. I will add half of what makes man good in bed is about the woman he's with.
     
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    Yes got that, but just using the flute portion of her reply :)
     
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