[Ask a Girl] What makes a guy sexy?

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  1. DirtyBiBoy

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    To all the ladies out there,
    What feature about guys makes you want to have sex with him, or what feature turns you on the most? And why?
    Also wondering if it's true women always go for the 6-pack type or if that is just media hype?
     
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    Just hype. Do all guys go for the barbie doll type?
    I suppose you are only interested in physical features? I ask bc I find a man that provides for his family must sexy. A man out playing with his kids, makes me a little wet and I'm not even a mom.
    But I will add that if I see a hot guy that is dressed and looks fit I do wonder if he has a 6 pack but that's true for hot ladies as well.
     
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    Different things on different guys made them sexy to me.
     
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    Ya know i got really lucky with my wife, she is drop dead gorgeous but she has a huge heart. She love me and all four of our kids. When i was looking for someone i did not know exactly what i wanted, all i knew is i did not want to find someone else that was a psyco and bipolar. No looks are not everything, at least not to me, and my wife does have scoliosis, but to me she is the prettiest gal out there.
     
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    Awwww. :)
    My husband makes scale references that's he's the 4 and I'm the 8 but I think it's the other way around and I'm the one that's got it so very lucky. I only have eyes for him.
     
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    Physical attraction should never be the base of a relationship, but it is what first attracted us to our partners. To the question the op posted what makes men attractive, that answer is as unique as the person answering it and as complex as quantum physics while dealing with quantum foam. Just like in tbat world the mere act of observation of a group of particles changes the behavior of them, same here, asking the question will warrent a diffrent response than what you will find in the natural world where things happen in the flow of time without a conscious thought patteren.
     
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    Its impossible to define. Yes you can say a particular female or male may initially look good to quite a few people , but that alone doesn't make anyone 'sexy' theres plenty more to it than that. You need much more about you.

    As for every girl 'always' goes for a 6 pack that's actually pretty far from the truth and over developed guys to extremes. That generally isn't what ladies seem to prefer. And just like CLE also mentioned generally most guys do not go for the female version of that either. The barbie doll massive fake boobs e.t.c.
     
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    These are all great answers, some going really into depth about the relationship side of the question. When I asked it, I didn't really have that aspect in mind; although I am super glad that that is what jumped into everyone else's mind!

    What I was thinking more along the lines of for example, people who watch porn usually have a flavor in the type of person they want to watch in the video (big chest, curves, particular race, some even, feet, abs, hair, etc.) so based on that frame of mind I was curious what women usually look for? I have my own opinions, but I was wondering what women find physically attractive about guys most? Or perhaps most women simply do not think that way and instead look for more of the emotional side??
     
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    Hmmm. A rocking set of abs are nice. I find the upper body to be extremely sexy, like the shoulder area, for example a man doing push ups or pull ups, you can see the muscles ripple, oh yes, that gets my juices flowing.
     
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    hard to answer as its an individual/personal thing..

    I like tall, polite, well presented amongst loads others.
     
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    Loads of what? Cum? :)
     
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    Does shooting myself in the face when i jo count?
     
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    maybe, possibly, HELL YES :D
     
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    Eyes do it for me.

    Other features? A sexy voice, laid back smile, respectfulness, fit but not overly into his appearance...
     
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    LOL, media hype, porn--what's the difference?

    I think most of the 6-packs I've seen in porn were in gay porn. The men in heterosexual porn are usually pretty revolting. In media hype, the perfect man is either a silver-haired executive with a credit card made from some unusual metal alloy, or a tanned and sweating six-pack with a face and legs that are apparently irrelevant to the in-camera universe.

    As for me, I do not "look for" things in guys. When the boyfriend captivated me, whatever it was that did it just came out without me looking for it.
     
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    Mine too, well he's my husband now, but I wasn't looking for love far from it, I was looking for more parties, which were at his house every weekend! Just so happened to marry my best friend ;)
     
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    I think it's the same for women as for guys. It's the package as a whole. The initial chemistry is the make or break it factor.
     
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    For women to find things that are sexy on men varies.

    For men to find women sexy is pretty much standard, not all.

    Like one women said she likes a guy out playing with a kid.

    Would a guy get horny if a girl was out playing with her kid? Lol.
     
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    ^^ This guy knows -- he's conducted extensive research. ;):p:D ^^