[Ask a Guy] What kind of subtle flirting turns men on the most?

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  1. Polly

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    Not talking about anything blatant or obvious..... but what sort of words, vibes, conversations or eye contact gives the typical male a little shudder of "the hornies"? :D
     
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    Subtle? Does not compute :lol

    We tend to be body oriented, so showing off a little more helps. For me, I particularly like a woman showing off combined with an inviting smile. Of course there is such a thing as a "sexy walk" and such, but I don't know how to explain in writing. :)
     
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    Yeah... I don't do subtle well.

    As for me? I guess you could say that looking at me and just giving a cocky/knowing grin would be about as subtle as I'll notice, if I happen to be looking you're way, which is debatable.
     
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    Brief light touch in unexpected places in seemingly innocent situations.
    This ignites the slow burn fuse & reinforced.........well outcome assured!
     
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    For those attuned to body language, real body language not pick-up book-learned body language, it can be a certain type of glance, and that's all it takes.
     
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    if you will just look at me and there would be atleast a hint for a smile

    also if you would stand close to me, your smell would talk instead

    :lol
     
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    Sometimes the simplest of actions can be the biggest turn-ons.
    A subtle sexual innuendo during conversation can get our minds running in the right direction. Or even something as simple as allowing your breast to brush against us as you walk by.
    To be honest, it doesn't take much for us to start thinking with the small head.

    Butl like Trond said, we dont always pick up on subtle. So you could always try the more direct approach of "Excuse me.. can you tell me if my pussy is wet?" ;)
     
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    :lol
     
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    if I'm sitting at the table (for example a restaurant) with a girl and she bends over a bit, putting her arms under her breast to increase her cleavage, keeping talking like nothing happens...well I could go crazy
     
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    Sitting a little closer than "normal", giving some smiles, bumping shoulders gently in a playful way.
    Showing appreciation if I do something for her, not overdoing it.
    If a guy likes ass or boobs and you know he gave a glance, look in his eyes with that smile, that you know and appreciate being admired, not in a slutty way if flirting, but just that thing of knowing you are being admired "decently"
    Rubbing hands, little bumps and contacts if you are close or walk side by side.

    If you want to push the boundaries a little, if a situation can be made where you slightly lose balance and end up against him,
    Many on this forum know I like breasts a lot. If you have a pony tail, or do something to fix your hair, rub your neck while slightly pushing your breasts out a short time.
     
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    A wink is enough for me. Lol
     
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    Yep, subtle doesn't work with me.

    Just walk in front of me, bend over to show me that great ass, turn your head and smile.

    Double points for doing it with a short skirt and no panties. My nose will be buried faster than you can say "waxahachie"
     
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    It's in the eyes and expression. A coy look and mischievous grin; I'm done.
     
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    None. I find subtlety amongst women a pretty reliable litmus test for BS