What is your routine with your SO for sex?

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  1. bigballs

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    The other day, my wife said we need to spend more time in the bedroom together, so she said lets start putting the kids to bed, watch 1 show, and then go to bed and have sex or masteurbate each other which ever we are in the mood for.

    What is your routine/agreement with your significant other for sex?
     
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    We don't really have a routine as it seems he wants it all the time. I suppose the only routine we have is in the morning we brush our teeth and shower together and always have great sex in there...
     
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    we don't have a routine. I wish we did. We both work a lot and are very busy and sometimes we are lucky to have sex once a week.
     
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    oh, I love shower sex. Its always steamy and you can clean up afterwards.
     
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    that is why we are trying to alot more time in bed together. Quite frankly, I am climbing the walls after 2 days of no cumming.
     
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    I know. I masturbate a lot because i have to.
     
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    I get home from work, we eat dinner, she's playing video games while I'm on the computer, we go upstairs to make love (sometimes we shower before hand), then she spoons me before we go to sleep.
     
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    Always Saturday and Sunday mornings, and any holiday mornings as well. Both of us have a free Tuesday, so it is a date for Tuesdays that after I get home for work we will have sex before dinner. Maybe before one other morning during the week (one of us wakes the other and then we go from there).
     
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    No real routine as to when, except that about any day we're not working we'll have a little morning delight. My wife works on her feet all day long, so she's usually too exhausted in the evening. Frankly, so am I, but we'll find one or two nights a week to play around.

    My late wife and I had developed a fairly firm schedule -- every 36 hours. That way we'd have morning sex/evening sex every other time, except on weekends we stepped it up a little to whatever we could -- once or twice a day. And one weekend per month we hid one of our cars, locked the doors to the house, pulled the shades, ignored the phone, got naked and chased each other around the house doing unmentionable things.
     
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    We don't have a routine. :ugh
    I think routines get boring & I am all about being spontaneous! :cheer
    Guess if you have kids though; that may present a problem. :(
    ~Bella
     
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    My wife usually gets upset if I initiate, so I wait for her to do so. Typically, she'll start rubbing my crotch in bed while I'm asleep in the early morning, usually on a weekend, before our kids are awake, and get me aroused. She's really into cleanliness, so when she tells me to "go wash your hands" it's her code for it's OK to have sex. It's too routine for me, though, I'd prefer more spontaneity and variety. Very rarely, she'll come to bed topless or nude, but most of the time I need to remove her pajamas and panties.

    Occasionally, when the kids are in school and I have a day off, we'll do it in the middle of the day. Very occasionally, we'll shower together and then adjourn to the bedroom.
     
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    No routine. Just whenever we get the chance. We're quite active.
     
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    Same here, especially since we're both pretty busy. We just kinda do it when we get together, but I suppose it's usually when we go to bed for the evening. Not too much mid-day spontaneous sex...but we're still satisfied. ;)
     
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    Every couple months like clockwork :( she gets in the mood
     
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    We don't really have one either, whenever the mood strikes.
     
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    a routine would scare me =\
     
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    :ugh we don't have a routine, just as long as my daughter is not around or sleeping then that's the right time.
     
  18. SexyScorp

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    Routine.....? uuugghh......

    I would rather not bother with sex unless its totally
    spontaneous....

    How do you know which day of the week you are gonna
    feel horny....???