My husband and I are having a difficult time with anal sex. We try all kinds of different positions and angles, yet he can't seem to find the target. We tried again the other night and to make things easier I used a dildo in my vagina. He only had one option to aim at and he still couldn't penetrate. Its not that I'm too tense or unwilling or he isn't hard enough, he just can't seem to get the angle of his dangle lined up with my back door. We had done it in the past but it's a ridiculously clumsy act and is more frustrating than its worth. Can anyone please give me some ideas to try with him? Thanks.