[Ask a Guy] What is tease cum denial like?

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  1. Alexia29

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    A porn video on this got me curious where a male was restrained on a table while a dominatrix type woman milked him for upto 50 minutes.without letting him cum and what was interesting was how quickly the guy was wanting to escape I mean within a matter of about 8 or something minutes he started showing signs of resistance.

    Have any guys here tried it with their partners? what is it like in EXTREME cases? with a male friend I have talked to who's wife did it says it actually gets to a point where its somewhat unpleasent lol but not in the painful sense but just VERY straining.

    I am just curious about this practice as it looks like a beautiful art, have any guys experienced it at all? is there an aspect of unpleasentness to it in the end? is there a point near the start where you think to yourself "what have I done!" but are restrained so cannot escape? how does it effect you on a psychological level? do you even develop a sense of 'fear' ? lol
     
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    I think half of it was played, I wouldn't mind being milked 50 minutes by my Girlfriend, as long as it feels good, plus it generally takes awhile for me anyway so I'm no help.
     
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    Never tried it for real, but I do fantasise about it and believe in the end id love it to be done to me. I love to edge my cock for a long time and the ultimate result is a much more powerful and satisfying orgasm; to have my lady do this while I'm restrained would only heighten the experience - though whether she could tell when I'm about to cum and avoid it would be very to achieve in reality, so I may never get near, say, 50 mins
     
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    I think you'd be surprised by how well we can tell when a man is going to cum. Any women with a tiny bit of experience should be able to recognize the signs.
     
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    Well, I'd love to try it - maybe you're more of an expert than you think ;)
     
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    I've never tried this, but I can give you some insight as to how it feels to be brought to the edge continually and then finally getting to release. In male masturbation it's called edging. I've edged for hours and sometimes even days. It is both an excruciating and amazing feeling. The endorphin rush ou et each time you are brought to the edge is like a drug. The fight to hold back is somewhat excruciating, but not painful. It stems from your desire to make that feeling last. Do this over and over and it is blissful. The final release is amazing! It feels like the orgasm to end all orgasms. Like your life force is being drained from you. Your orgasm is more powerful. You shoot more cum and shoot farther than you normally do.

    In short, I would love to have a woman do this to me rather than doing it to myself. It would be amazing.
     
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    50 minutes seems excessive so does being restrained! mrsbiker will tease and work me over for awhile until i am so close that she makes me cum by just stroking the head with one as finger.
     
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    Was once tied to a bed and sucked hard. They then left me tied up while they showered for 10 minutes. When thry camd back they put on sexy undies and then sat on my face and told me to lick them until they came.
    They then sucked and wanked me while i had to tell ghem my rudest fantasies but kept stopping when i wasnt rude enough. I finally came over her face after atound 45 minutes while telling her that i wanted to see her and her best mate in 69 podiyion eating each others pussies while a large group of men stood above them wanking until they were covered in spunk .
    Was the best sex ever imo
     
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    I do tantra semen retention--I only cum once every 2-3 weeks. We do long teasing sessions (my wife) once in a while (she has a low libido for anything) but it is not a torture--it is very enjoyable to go hours and taken to the edge many times, with no cum!!
     
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    I am teased and denied multiple times a day, which keeps me horny all the time, and I love every minute of it. I always thank her for not letting me cum.
     
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    Love this.
     
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    Hi @Alexia29 , yes I have done this exactly as you have described, the tables are called milking tables and have a hole in the middle for a lady to sit underneath the table and milk the guys cock. I have done it both restrained and unrestrained, being restrained is more erotic as it plays with the senses more, as does being blindfolded and not knowing who is underneath milking me. To answer your questions, it is not painful and whilst most ladies know when a guy is about to orgasm and back off, there is enough pre-cum as a lubricant not to make it painful. That is probably the most sensuous part, being brought so close to orgasm but never being given the release. This is something I practice anyway with Tantric sex. It does feel like constantly being teased and mentally the thoughts are of just being allowed to orgasm but being denied but not normally in a bad way, I have laid there knowing that the lady is just getting exactly what she wants. I would agree it is a beautiful art, I am very much into erotic art and there are milking videos of ladies just milking in a very sensuous and erotic fashion. Psychologically there is just a pure desire to orgasm, which after 50 minutes will be a huge full body orgasm pumping more cum faster and harder than usual, which if the lady chooses to cover herself in it I also find a beautiful art. I have never had any negative psychological effects and never encountered any fear even when restrained very tightly, I know my role in that scenario is purely submissive with the lady doing exactly what she wants, usually the milking is just part of extended submissive role-play that includes other sex acts, sometimes the milking also includes cock and ball slapping, but its always done in a very safe way.
     
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    It can be very frustrating and exciting at the same time, it keeps you (well, at least me) horny. When being edged over and over and not allowed to cum, it can drive you crazy. It could be for a session, a couple of days of for some longer periods of time.
    For me I love it when my GF keeps teasing me but not push me over the edge for a day, couple of days and very occasionally for a longer period. When I do orgasm it is way more intense compared to a race straight to the finish. Some include chastity play as well, so the guy is unable to break the frustrating feeling and it can also add an extra dimension to the game.

    And another added dimension, and also a very frustrating one, is that when ' allowed' to cum, the orgasm is being ruined. So the stimulation will end just before or on the 'point of no return' so there is an ejaculation but no real pleasure. So the 'orgasm' was there, but no satisfaction so the hornyness stays high.

    In short, cum/orgasm denial...I love it! :)
     
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    She let me have a ruined orgasm about a week ago (stayed on edge) it was great. My last full blown orgasm was July 26th. I don't know when I will be allowed to orgasm again, but this feeling gets better and better each day.