What is Sexy

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  1. laydbazinga

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    Hi All.

    I want to begin an inquiry as to what one thinks is sexy, what turns you on? Its those little subtle things that defines attractive. For example, seeing someone in a crowd at a market and what makes you notice them is the way their eyes light up when they smile. or standing next to someone in the grocery store line up and cant help but be enamored by the way they talk. Share please!
     
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    Well for me, girls who are generally fit, and more importantly are confident with their body. That's the key. Maybe you're not model-class pretty, but if you're confident, not afraid/too shy to shake your body up, show things whenever your man ask for it and dress to impress, then i'll take you to bed anytime.
     
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    hmm. it's kind of too difficult to generalize attractiveness for me. My generalizations could kinda of be seen as a bit shallow and specific sounding, like slim but with smaller-side perky boobs and butt. and small framed in general. But there's plenty of exceptions to that rule on what I find attractive

    And natural-dressed looking rather than super dressed up feels more approachable to me. Also if i get the impression the person isnt judgmental er anything
     
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    it is really hard to say

    for example, your avatar is really attractive, but how can I describe you why
     
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    A woman who has the confidence to smile and look me straight in the eye even as casually saying something as simple as the state of the weather.
     
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    A woman that isn't afraid to say what she wants sexually....
     
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    its interesting to read the results so far, funny how the ladies have not said anything,
    so to continue, what else? how about the way someone has the confidence to make eye contact, I agree with ibushwalker . Do you think its predetermined in our DNA chemistry or is it random?
     
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    I think confidence is a huge turn on! A guy could look like george clooney but if he cant talk to me confidently then he may aswell not bother.
    A confident man who can hold his head high and make you feel proud to be at his side wins for me every time.
     
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    a nice polite but dirty talking woman!! that does it for mee
     
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    If you would have asked me this in my youth, I could have given you a very specific type. After 40+ years of realizing the reason girls didn't have a peter, I have learned that women of all sizes and shapes have their beauty and merit. I have also learned to avoid the model/starlette type. They may look nice, but they tend to be shallow and poor lovers. For me, it's more the way she carries herself and her personality that gets my attention. One thing I have grown to prefer, although not a deal breaker, are natural blondes. I'm not going to get into that, as that could be a whole different thread about natural hair color preference.

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    A thin, fit, hardbody...fine facial features, and preferably natural blonde. Love a small tight butt. No cellulite and dimples on her ass and thighs. And of course, intelligence...but of she doesn't have the looks to go with it....
     
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    Yay. I'm 29 and already know this.
     
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    as i've aged :)rofl) two things have proved to always be sexy to me:
    A) intelligence
    2) confidence

    physically its most often been blonde hair and large boobs, but neither of tose outweighs the other two!
     
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    Breathing is a good start.

    After that I like a sense of humor
     
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    I never understood the whole confidence attraction. I know downers can be annoying, but yea...I don't place any weight on someone being really confident

    maybe its my lack of confidence that causes that answer to bug me haha
     
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    The way he presents himself. I don't like guys who are cocky,or who have swag. I fall for funny and guys who are in shape and work hard to achieve this. :D:p

    If he has a sense of humor I'm his forever!
     
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    Physically, the first thing I notice is the hair. Long flowing hair is an immediate turn on. A woman who is not vain or shallow, someone who smiles, is warm and genuine. That is a turn on for me. I don't care how hot she is.... if she is shallow and arrogant... immediate turn off
     
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    Sexy curves and a cute face and smile. Not too skinny nor too big, there should ideally be a hint of hourglass shape there, but otherwise I can fall for a range of sizes. Maybe I'm weird, but high or low confidence hardly matters. What I really appreciate is a sweet kind of personality.
     
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    Yes Thanks for chiming up, confidence is HUGE !
     
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    you are well advanced!!!!