What is "hot" anyway?

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  1. Barbwire

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    What is "hot"? I have to ask because I am confused. I have never posted a picture of myself here, but I am all the time hearing how "hot" I am by the gents and ladies that PM me. I suppose I should be flattered, but I'm just perlexed.

    I even asked a guy how he could think I am "hot" when he has never seem a picture of me. He said he could tell by my writing. Now, I found that odd, as I make it a point to almost never use words to describe myself physically in any of my anecdotes, in fact, I don't even do that with the characters in the stories I post here.

    I always thought "hot" meant, good looking, but I guess I was wrong. What does "hot" mean to you?
     
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    Hot means a ton of things to me, besides the obvious, lol

    Hot = good, amazing, spectacular
     
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    I think "hot" represents sex appeal.

    Sex appeal can be either visual, and/or mental.
    Whoever coined the phrase "Your mind is your most powerful sex organ" wasn't joking; a sexually like minded, or person who is passionate about and enjoys sex freely can be incredibly "hot" (sexually appealing) without involving their appearance. :brow
     
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    I would agree with you. To me 'hot' would describe someones looks
    But, if someone is described as 'sexy' this can ecompass many things, looks, attitude etc and so i guess this is the context that they are using. I would imagine they are saying you have the kind of attitude etc that they would associate with someone that is 'hot'. :shrug
    Is still a compliment however they mean it! :)
     
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    Hot is funny. A man with a great sense of humor and a quick wit is hot, regardless of his physical attributes. That is what I like in a poster.
    On our forums the funniest guys are my favorites. My other half has a quick wit and that is the first thing that stole my heart. He just happens to look good too. ;)
     
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    It's NOT your avatar. :lol

    Since you haven't posted a picture or described yourself, it's got to be what you've written and/or how you've written posts. "Hot" isn't just looks. (At least not to me.)

    Have you asked those who made the statement?
     
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    ...maybe you should just post a picture and let us decide... :)
     
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    Nope, not gonna do it, sorry.:p
     
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    I think "HOT" indicates one's ability to be in total touch with their own sexuality. Being good looking is definitely a 'plus', but is not always necessary, if one's confidence in their own body and self-image is strong. A person's mental strength, I believe, makes them seriously intoxicating.... hence, HOT!

    CowboyLover - you are fucking HOT!
    Are you allowed to say FUCK on this forum! :lol
     
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    I think NaughtyKnickers hit it right on the money. Your mind is your most powerful sex organ! Man!!! I must have one hell of a huge Mind!! LOL
     
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    Or for that matter it doesn't even have to involve you in
    person. You can convey the feeling of being hot just by the way you write.
    And I would assume thats what they are talking about. Not being a teen
    I rarely use the term hot, Other than describe your sexuality.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    I think it depends on the person's intellect....

    For a macho man with brains in their pants, a barbie type woman with plastic boobs and zero personality may be hot......

    To me "hot" is a guy with magnetism, a sharp wit and a way with words.....an intellectual....

    cant stand thickos.....or male chauvenists or guys that just think about fucking all the time.....its gotta be a LOT more than that...he has to be clever...very clever and telepathic.....now thats really hot..!!!

    lol
     
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    One of the hottest things a man said to me was.....

    "if i was to meet you woman, I would just sit opposite for you for at least half an hour...just staring at you....to see what you are about....and to see if you understand the meaning behind my eyes"...

    Ooooohhh yeah......now doesnt that make a difference from.....okay love get yer kit off....

    THAT guy I talk of it VERY clever.....very clever indeed...

    :)
     
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    So, are my eyes "hot" enough for ya? :brow
     
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    Ooooooooohhhhh woweeeeee.........


    Yes they are girl.....very penetrating.....!!!!
     
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    Beautiful eyes, and that little curl in your bangs is definitely hot!
     
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    Whoa, now I've gotta take back my comment about your avatar. Yeppers, those eyes are hot enough. :)
     
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    Cowboy Lover you already know my thoughts :)

    To me you are beuatiful & hot , and gorgeous....
    Wheres me passport :)
     
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    my idea of "hot" is whatever turns you on such as if you have a fetish for feet you would think thats hot
     
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    Hot could be many things but mostly if you are the in the same wavelength as the admirer.
     
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