what is a good size

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  1. haug219

    haug219 New Member

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    Im just wondering what a good size penis is as in whats too big or small....Im 7.5 - 8 inches long idk around...but would anyone know if that is a good size? Thx
     
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    *sigh* You're above average. Whether or not a woman would deem you "too big" depends on the woman since vaginas come in various sizes as well. I think you'll be fine, and if you would happen to be a little too much for your partner, positions where you control the depth of penetration (doggie), or she does (cowgirl), can be helpful.
     
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    first and foremost, i think it is important to set the parameters for measurement. is it from the lower base near the sternum or from the top? the difference could well be a shocking 2 inches
     
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    idk i just measured from the bottom where it starts to the tip
     
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    and thx for the advice bluesy
     
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    sounds ok to me, but listen to Bluesy, all women are not the same, and if your unsure with a woman take it easy and you will know what feels right, if not she will tell you
     
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    k thx alot
     
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    YW hon :)
     
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    It's normally measured from the top side. Not sure what you meant by "bottom".
     
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    top to me too, maybe that's the cause of all my lack of self-confidence!! now i can add an extra 1inch!!
     
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    oh

    oh now i know what u mean yea i measured on the top side
     
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    8 inches is really small--you should see a dick doctor and try some surgery, seriously
     
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    I use to really worry about my size because I am only like 6 inches but my SO really gets off on it and sometimes I can go to deep suprising to me considering my length but it really adds self confidence when she says "baby your going to deep"

    I am like yessss in my head of course

    but long story short you are pretty big dude
     
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    As long as it works thats the main thing about all penis's.
    and as nearly every female in this forum has said time and again, stop worring about the size of your dick, its only a very small part of making a female satisfied sexualy. or male if your into those instead.
     
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    I know kronnie, but it is one of those innate feelings that I have had for a long time. I will get over it eventually
     
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    Whatever makes your woman satisfied. Strangely enough, everyone on the internet seems to have a big penis. Weird, eh. :eyes
     
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    not everyone, there are those that say they have not, so it must be that you dont see the posts where guys are feeling inadiquate about their average or below average size.

    But again if it works then that to me is far more important.
     
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    For me 6 to 6.5 inches is ideal. Anything bigger than that is uncomfortable and painful. My boyfriend is just over 6 inches and he hits bottom during doggy, so I usually don't want to do that position. It's very uncomfortable for me to have my cervix pounded. However, other women love that. It really depends on the individual.
     
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    It isn't something you can generalise because we're all so different. For me 7 inches is perfection but everyone has different ideas of perfection. :)
     
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    Anything over 8 would most likely be too big for me but I'm like.. 5'1 and barely 110.. lol (but >< my butt keeps getting BIGGER!) And, as slick said.. you can't generalize it.