What if I think about women all the time?

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  1. schwa'd

    schwa'd New Member

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    Does that mean I should just break up with my boyfriend of 4 years and find me one. Or assume its natural to think about being with somebody else from time to time. Moreso, Ive never been with a woman. The desire to certainly becomes stronger as time goes on. That would be a whole nother ball game. The more he gets on my nerves, the more I think about it!!!!!!!!! Help!
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    No, it doesn't mean you should break up with your boyfriend of 4 years. It's pretty normal I'd say. Maybe you could talk to your boyfriend about a 3 some and see if you like it or not. Hell, maybe he'll let you do it on your own. :) I see women all the time and think, "Damn she's hot!" but I wouldn't lose my man over it.
     
  3. Kronnie

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    LaVita has a good point, perhaps asking your partner if you are allowed to experiement alone with a female..
    I can understand that him being a dick towards you pushes the thoughts deeper into your mind though..
     
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    There's nothing wrong with sexual attraction of any kind...except torwards kids...and dead people...and animals...and fictional characters...and Paris Hilton...hmmm, maybe I should rethink my statement? :p :lol
     
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    lmfao hahaha....all of the above are giant no nos....
    but any sex with over 18 year old in america is deemed lawful so enjoy... :)
    in europe its 16.

    But thats only because we mature faster than Americans :p hahahahaha lol
     
  6. Puss_in_boots

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    As a matter of fact, in many states in the US the legal age of consent is 16. However, most people don't know which states have what age so it's safe to assume it's at least eighteen everywhere.

    Anyway, back to your regularly scheduled thread. :)
     
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    I think about women a lot but am happy with my man also. If you are happy with your boyfriend i would say to stay with him, or at least not to break up with him simply so you can have a woman. It may be worth discussing this with him if you want it so much. My boyfriend has actually told me he wouldn't mind me being with a woman because he wouldn't feel threatened by it so you're boyfriend may be happy for you to experience this.
     
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    I think about women as well but it doesn't mean I'm going to break off my engagement to someone I've been with for 10 years. We actually both enjoy watching girl on girl action ;) so its great for me that he likes to watch that ... Vlad is very supportive.
     
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    *Do not flame me*
    Girls date boys
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    Boys date girls
    *I am not sorry about what I just said*
     
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    :eyes Yeahhh, I'm not sure how well you're going to fit in around here..

    I bet your boyfriend would think he's in heaven if you confessed your thoughts. I bet you could somehow work it into your personal relationship so that it only makes things hotter :brow
     
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