What have you learned

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by whybother, Jul 27, 2015.

  1. whybother

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    What would you say was one thing that you have learned here at SF.

    I have learned not to judge people who are into BDSM.
     
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    I have learned that I am far more open that I thought I was. I am just with the wrong person!
     
  3. Amature

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    How little I knew about pleasuring a woman.
     
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  4. whybother

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    Specifics please... What have you learned about pleasing her?
     
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    ...that everyone has a little " freak" within.

    That there are more people into pegging than I would have thought.
     
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    Sex (sex acts) with the same sex doesn't make you gay.
     
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    That most of the people here are normal, nice, open and non judgemental.
     
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    That not everyone tells the truth.
     
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    I have learned there are far more people into the same things as I am than I was lead on to believe. Also that you can talk about these things in a reasonable fashion with the people here and not be ashamed.

    Plus I have learned you can tell a woman or Man on here that her/his face, body, breasts or ass or what have you is amazing looking without having someone get all offended. Basically people can come here and not have to fear being made fun of for posting pics or asking a question.
     
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    that is a really good one. I agree.
     
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    That we are all saints!:D
     
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    I had to think on this a while so I'm sorry for the slow reply Whybother. I learned (to my relief) that satisfying a woman isn't all about using a penis. That some females can't orgasm by penis alone and that oral or fingering skills are needed. That some men have the same insecurities of sexual performance as I do. That some of my sexual desires weren't as strange as I thought and some were normal (cunnilingus for example). That not every man has a ten inch dick and can thrust vigorously for an hour or more. That some people have the same questions about what is "normal" that I have. That I'm not the only man that endured a non-sexual marriage for years because I was afraid of being alone, but felt I was dieing of loneliness. And that there are lots of pretty, sexy, love starved females out there that are as lonely as I was for a long, long time that I never knew existed. I learned about squirting (my wife did once and being young and dumb we thought she had pissed the bed). I learned about the G spot, how to massage it, etc from a link someone provided. And I got to read about what the opposite sex thinks, wants, and feels that I never knew knew. Some other stuff I'm sure I've overlooked too, but I guess this is enough for now.
     
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    Thanks. I think that is what I was looking for.
     
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    I learned a few things on SF.
    Women who squirt, I read it on SF before I experienced it with a woman.
    A few tips and tricks picked up from reading other threads.
    How some women LOVE pleasing their man orally the way I used to think was all made up stories. Then I met some into doing it OMG!
    Learned variety of life, some for me and some not for me, but not to judge them.
     
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    I have learned to appreciate the here and now to the fullest. Never take who or what you have for granted. It can vanish or radically change in a blink of an eye.

    xx
     
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    Re-enforced some thoughts I already had. :)
     
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    I've learned I squirt more like a porn star than the average woman. (According to the ladies here)
     
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    I have learned that some people can't learn.

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    What? That we are all nuckin-futs?
     
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    Pics or it didn't happen. Lol
     
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