What Have You Learned?

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  1. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    Many of us come on this forum for one reason or another. There already is a thread covering our reasons for joining...

    I am curious, now that you've been here for a while, what are some of the things you have learned, that have helped you in your personal or sexual lives?
     
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    Okay, everybody's shy, so I'll go first....

    1. Maturbating helps me enjoy regular sex even more. I always thought that if I masturbated, then I wouldn't "have anything left to orgasm" when we had real sex. But I have learned masturbation works as an exercise to help me experience my own body's sensuality - and be more sensitive to my husband's touch and manipulation of erotic areas. So now i don't feel bad if i masturbate, knowing that we plan on having sex later on that day. It can actually help me achieve orgasm better.

    2. I am happier with my own body (took over 50 years... :lol ) . I always was self-conscious, thinking my boobs were too small, and I always tried to be a bit thin. But now "I'm free, I'm free, I'm free at last", as I have learned from the gentlemen on this forum that many (if not most) don't really care for the over-sized boobs (and even worse, if they are fake). Anything larger than a handful is a waste!
    And they also don't care for their ladies being too lean. Seems its nice for us to have a little bit of meat on the bones.

    3. Guys tend to add about 1.5 - 2.5 inches to the size of their penis, whenever making a post about such on the internet. :phat

    Now - if I can learn things about sex at MY age, surely there are others who have, too.
     
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    I have learned that nearly all men are lesbians trapped in male bodies, over a hundred have offered to prove their lesbian talents to me.

    I have learned that many people 35-50 are curious about same-sex experiences. This I found interesting.

    I have learned that being gay truly puts you into a minority.
     
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    I've learned to appreciate being older and the shift in my priorities to things that are sensual. Not sure that I learned that here or at other places like this. I suspected such along the way and that suspicion is what led me to these places, to confirm that I was often "normal", but thankfully, unique in my own way also.
     
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    I learned that there's alot of mature people out there who can talk about sex in an intellectual manner. I learned that this site is a great place to share insecurites and realize that your not alone. And I learned that i'm not the only person here whose horny. lol
     
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    I learned that I am not the only one that loves sex and try's to better myself in it... (believe me if yo uknew my friends -girls and guys- it seems like they think its just overrated)
     
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    I ask that of myself sometimes why some people say sex is over rated. I love sex , I love to please my partner in every way. I try to better myself to her needs all the time. Pleasing her is a real turn on it makes me happy inside knowing she has been fufilled . I also love to be pleased , My orgaisms are very entense. I love sex if it is with my wife or by myself. I love how I feel after I cum. Maybe some people don't get the same kinds of feelings out of sex. Emotional or physical. Maybe that is why they think it is over rated. As for me and my wife sex is great
     
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    I've learned that:
    • I'm not the only one who greatly enjoys masturbation.
    • There are lots of people experiencing lots of varieties of sex.
    • Sex and love are some of the most wonderful things that a human being could experience.
    • Someday, I will experience some of what I've been reading and learning about. :brow
    • People are very happy and willing to contribute to the sexual experience and knowledge of the whole group.
    • I need to take a long, hot shower after reading some of the posts.:brow
    • I don't feel so different in my pursuit of sexual knowledge after reading everybody's interests in sex.
    • SF has greatly contributed to my self-confidence.
     
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    Now for what have I learned. I have learned no matter how much you think you know about sex there is still allot to learn . I have learned from these post there are people out there with the same kind of thoughts no matter how weird they may be (thoughts not the people ) . heck I was suprised to find out that there are allot of men who like have their anus penertrated. I thought for sure I was among the very few who do. I to have gone to the shower for some relief after reading some of your post. I have found that there are some really hot ladies that take part in these threads . I have found that there are people on this site with lot's of experiance and some with very little. but most of all I have learned there are people out there with good hearts who really seam to care . I am really glad to find this site.
     
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    I'm sorry there Rose, But I was once that guy. When I first discovered the internet, and porn, And began chatting with people. I lied about my age and my Size.

    This is one thing I learned here since I have been a part of this forum. I have become more mature in the sexual universe. I find now that I am not affraid to admit my issues with my size. 4 Inches!:D I am very proud.

    Secondly, I have been able to let go of my inhibitions while I masturbate and pay attention to what my body needs and what Feelings I feel when i achieve the disired response. My body enjoy's Anal Penetration and I continuously fantasise and think about men. I have began to experience, Even though I am still a Virgin, that I am becoming more aware of my psychological and physical needs, No matter what society or other people think.

    I've also noticed in the time spent here, I continuously learn from all sort of people. I gain Confidence. I also know that the majority of people in here have matured and grown a more inteligent group. It's not a bounch of imature perverts. Atleast to a degree:D We're all teachers now.
     
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    Not to mention its a great place to pick up alot of sexual women... so.. how are you doing? lol j/k
     
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    Damn! Ya'll (I'm from down south) are the greatest! I am moved by your responses. I'll answer the question latter today. My head is "too fixed" to think right now. (Insert, fuzzy-headed smiley)
     
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