what else can I do to my guy to get him really horny and last?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by rhiannon72, Sep 25, 2006.

  1. rhiannon72

    rhiannon72 New Member

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    Is there anything to do to a guy to make him totally go nutty besies giving him a blowjob? Im trying to learn of some new foreplay techniques preferably that focus on handplay on his cock and also on his nipples. Butt play is out as hes not into that. He loves getting his nipples licked, sucked, and silk used on him. So far I have done the above and use of whip cream too. Any other ideas? How does one give a really good handjob?

    Also what ways can you make a guy last longer? I know switching positions is one of them is there any other?

    TIA
     
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    One thing that really gets my guy going is when I masturbate and touch myself in front of him, and say things like, 'Do you like it when I touch myself here?' It really drives him wild. :brow
     
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    The BEST hand jobs are the ones incorporated with bjs, but to me that's just a good bj -- using the hands too.

    Since my wife has a hang-up about giving oral sex, I get more than my share of hand jobs. I think the secret to a great hand job is a little like the secret to a really good bj: wet and slippery. My wife (and I) like the silicone lube best for hand jobs because it doesn't dry out.

    You might try this: Tell your guy you'd like a nice foot massage, then have him lie at your feet on his back, his feet beside your face. If you get situated right this will give you full access to his private parts while he rubs lotion on your feet. The only problem is you may not get much of a foot rub, as his concentration on your feet may drift from time to time.
     
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    At times my wife will rub her breasts over my cock as she strokes me....I find that a real turn-on and her breasts feel real good on me that way!:D
     
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    Definately Viagra! No question about it
     
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    um the plaaying with yourself suggestion is definatly good advice.
     
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    Mechanical things like bjs and different positions work, to a point. If you really want to drive him nuts try incorporating some fantasy sharing, if both of you are agreeable some role playing, and let it grow from there.
     
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    Let him watch you masterbate with a dildo while you give him a blowjob and talk fantasizes about having a threesome. Drives me wild.
     
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    Full body slippery-slidey baby oil sex is a blast! Put a huge beach towel on the bed to avoid staining the sheets!
     
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    ummm. a guys take on the question....

    I love when my woman strips for me then masturbates right in foront of me, just out of my reach...I like to watch her climax, and then share the taste of her fingers with me...

    as for hand jobs. lots of lube, constant slow and steady strong strokes...then maybe a bit faster, then slow it down take one hand and grip it right below the head, take your other hand and firmly and slowly start ot work a circular motion around the head...lots of friction, try varying your speed a bit and watch his reaction...Don't be afraid to use your chest if you're endowed enough...

    Mix it up. try different things and watch his reaction and see how he responds, go in baby steps so thatway you can rule out exactly what he likes and doesn't like...

    Couples play where both explore and learn each others turn on points and what they really like is very fun and very healthy for a relationship...
     
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    nothing better than watching a woman play withherself. but she really has to be into it. it works better if she acts like your not even there and is having really hot sex withherself. using different poistion and what not
     
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    I have found 2 things that seem to work for me.

    1- With hand jobs, the head is key. With lube or saliva, I place the palm of my hands on the head of the penis and make a twisty tornado motion all around the head with palms ONLY. Then I will enclose my fingers around the head, go up and down with the intention of massaging only the head. Do this whichever way you see fit. My other hand stays on the shaft and is not moving. Maybe after awhile, the hand on the shaft will be moving up and down, touching the ridge each time.

    2- Lube for this one, please! This one is kind of hard to describe. The technique is simple though. Make a motion with your hands like you're climbing up a rope. That's exactly what you do but the rope is a penis. Enclose the penis around the top and move down to the base. When one hand reaches the base, the other hand is at the top. Keep on going like this with each hand alternating. Also try "climbing down a rope" (opposite direction) although I find the climbing up a rope is easier.

    Either way, give the head some special attention!
     
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    Hmmmm - I'll have to try that "Rope-climbing" maneuver! :tup

    For a blow job - I have recently kept my mouth over the head, to about an inch below it. While continuously flicking my tongue back & forth on his most sensitive spot, one hand will be stroking up and down his cock (well lubed, of course) - making sure that my thumb is providing a nice pressure along the front of his cock. My other hand is gently massaging his balls, occassionally providing some stroking pressure between his balls and anal area.

    Sounds complicated, and it is taking some practice, but Thorn goes crazy! You might say I have him in the palm of my hand(s)! :)