I would really like to know what it takes to get a women to first come to the point of anticipating the idea of having sex. Next what do you want to build up to the idea of actually having it and last what do you want from foreplay to the intercourse and then afterward. Want I am asking about is the process of sex not just the act but start to finish. In other words, dressed to undressed. Is there a process of mutual seduction or is it a one way street were the man has to do all the work? Perhaps, this may seem like a large question but the answers are important to me since I have no idea what the present norms are.