[Ask a Guy] What does a " freak in the sheets" entail to you?

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  1. Gingerj87

    Gingerj87 New Member

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    So I wanna try being freakier in bed with the bf, but I would like some tips ! ; ) I dont always , but i sometimes to give oral to him, should i try more?
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    Where do you start??
    There's stacks of stuff within this site......do a search and it may surprise;)

    Welcome to SF.....:welcome
     
  3. HotForHoney

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    Ask him what he wants
    Try fingering his ass a little when giving a bj
    Tell him to finger your ass when he's giving you oral/fingering you
    Take a shower
    Talk dirty
    Go buy a sex board game
    Buy toys
    Dress up
    Get handcuffs/whip
    Try different positions
    Watch porn together - act out what they do
    Bring some food into the bedroom.....
     
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    Anal play turns many guys on
     
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    As in most of life's matters, open communication is the key. He needs to be able to tell you, without embarrassment, if he likes to be fingers in the ass while you're sucking him, and you need to be able to tell him that you are just dying to rim and be rimmed, if that's what you are into. No shame and no judgement with the understanding that you won't do or coerce any act that makes either of you uncomfortable.