what do you think!!

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  1. rocky1

    rocky1 New Member

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    a few months back my gf had her mate come over for a drink.all is well i get a little sleepy so i said im off to bed the next thing my gf and her mate comes in and asks if she can sleep with us as there was no spare blanket. oh yes i thought the next thing porn goes on the tv and before i knew what was happening there licking the shit out of each other.WOW lets say it was a good night.
    now heres where im stuck she wants me to do the same for her ie me blowing off another guy now im confused as i dont know what to do i am not gay but im open to anything new and when we are having a good sesh i am that horny i prob would tru it i think but in the situation who knows.she said its her fantacy and i wanna make her happy can anyone tell me if they have done anything similar to give me a qlue on what to do
    lol. :ugh
     
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    Sometimes we must draw the line.
    And thats where this guy draws it.

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    If you aren't comfortable, don't do it.
     
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    I've been in a similar situation to you (threesome with two girls), and it was something I won't forget for a while. As to the converse, I would never get aroused by or try to arouse another man. It's not that you or I are selfish, it just seems that more women are more attracted to women than men are to men.

    The answer to your girlfriend could be somthing like you are sorry but you would feel very uncomfortable going through with her fantasy. If she loves you, she will accept this.
     
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    Having done straight mfm threesomes before there is a limit to what you are wiling to do in a threesome situation. f-f oral is much more tolerated socailly than m-m oral sex and not to mention the additional risks that m-m oral sex does carry. Just because you are not comfortable performing oral on a male does not mean that a mfm threesome is completely out of the question. Believe me, there is nothing more hotter than watching your gf / wife has sex with another guy and enjoying herself.

    Not every guy is open to seeing his gf / wife has sex with another guy but they are alright with seeing them having sex with another woman probably because they see it as less of a threat. However if you are open to the idea of having a mfm threesome but performing oral then let your gf know. Also discuss boundaries and what activities the two of you want to keep for the two of you. I realize that your fmf kind of happened as a spur of the moment but having threesomes without boundaries is quite dangerous. Whatever you decide the main thing is to communicate with your girlfriend about your decision, why you decided the way you did, and if you decide to go a head with the mfm idea then make sure to discuss boundaries.
     
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    I've done a mfm threesome with a girl I knew and someone else she knew. Hands off each other, it was for the woman.

    It was okay, and because it wasn't a relationship there wasn't any emotional baggage. It was quite fascinating to be sitting on the bed just centimetres watching him fuck her, and knowing I would be next and he would be watching me while I fucked her. The woman, she loved it (big, big smile). But like I said it was three acquaintances, so I can't comment on how it would feel to be watching your partner or girlfriend getting fucked by another guy.
     
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    just tell her that you aren't in to that type of thing and you should be fine. most girls recognize/accept that it is more common for a ffm than the other way around and to not accept that would leave them with a very limited selection.
     
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    If you don't want to do it then don't do it and she will need to understand that
     
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    hey thanks you guys i have taken your views into account and i decided to tell her its not my thing and she said its ok it is just a fantasy and she didnt expect me to do it anyway so all went well there better still i thought id ask out of curiosity (would u get it on with alass again) and f++k me she said yea i cant wait to do it again and watch her get it on with another chick so thanks again you guys and what a great site
     
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    Rocky1,
    I'm glad it worked out for you, and really it is a good sign for your relationship. The number one ingredient for exciting sex is communication, and it's great that your girlfriend told you her fantasy. Both of you keep the communication going, we all have new fantasies that pop into our heads from time to time. And your girlfriend sounds an interesting lady too.
     
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    Interesting post! I'd say if you really don't want to blow another guy that it probably wouldn't work...the dynamics just wouldn't work, I'd think. Tell your GF to tell you another fantasy she has...maybe y'all can work out something that you ARE comfortable with that's just as hot for her. My wife and I fantasize about MFM's and FMF's, but we have no plans to live out any of those fantasies. However, if my wife truly wanted to engage in some MFM play, I'd imagine I'd be game. Now, I can't see me blowing the other guy (wouldn't turn me on, wouldn't turn her on, so regardless of anything else there'd simply be no arousal value in it), but I wouldn't feel reserved about being part of the experience (or I don't think I would...don't really know with absolute certainty since we've never done anything like this).

    HTH!
    BD