My first post...hello! I don't have time to elaborate on why, exactly, I'll be asking what I'm about to ask (as I write this, it's so late it's early), but I'd like to give you a little scenario and just hear what you think about it for now. I'll read your responses when I have time next, and I promise to elaborate no matter what any of you say. Please, just be honest and speak your mind. Thanks! Okay, do you think that the person I'm about to describe (could be someone close to me like...me :uhh: ) might possibly have gay or bi tendencies, or is he totally straight? You decide. Okay...the person I'm talking about is male, and he participated in sexual experimentation with a male friend when both were very young. In fact, the sexual experimentation resulted in the two of them actually having had oral sex a few times. The friend ended up moving away, and the person I'm talking about (that's annoying...let's call him "HeIsMe" from now on, okay? ) really missed the things he and his friend used to do together. Well, as HeIsMe grew older, he became interested in girls, but it was always in the back of his mind how much he wanted to have oral sex with another guy again. Anyway, HeIsMe got his first "real" girlfriend when he was 16, and he totally loved having sex with her and everything...but, no matter how much sex they had, he still wanted very badly to give another guy head. In fact, he began to feel that something was missing from the relationship he had with his girlfriend, and he knew exactly what it was (can you guess?). Keep in mind as you read this, HeIsMe had no desire whatsoever to have a romantic relationship with another guy, he didn't want to have anal sex with another guy, he didn't want to kiss or hug another guy...hell, he didn't even find 99% of the guys he saw in his daily life attractive at all. The ONLY thing he wanted from another guy was to give him a blowjob, but the other guy had to be at least a little attractive...and, as coincidence would have it, one of HeIsMe's best friends, Allen, was much more that just "a little attractive". He was damn cute! BTW...the name "HeIsMe" is getting annoying, too, so I'll just say "I" and "me" and whatnot, since that's who I'm talking about. Well, to make a long story short (I don't want this to sound like some kind of porno), I set my sights on Allen, instigated little wrestling match "playfights" in my bedroom whenever he'd come over, and pretty much seduced him into letting me suck his dick. Though he was about my age and, like I said, quite good-looking, he'd never had a "real" girlfriend and was somewhat naive (yes, he was a virgin). I had second thoughts about becoming his first sexual experience, but I seriously couldn't help myself. I wanted him SO bad and he was SO cute...I just HAD to go through with it, and he wasn't hard to convince at all. Oh, in case you're interested, I swallowed (okay, so I'll get a little pornographic, but not too bad). After I'd finished pleasuring Allen that first time, I think he got a bit embarrassed, as he only spoke a few words to me and soon went home. As I laid there in bed and thought about what I just did, I could hardly believe it. I thought about how I was the very first person (aside from himself, as he'd probably masturbated quite a few times in his life) to bring him to orgasm, I thought about how awesome his erection had felt in my mouth, and I thought about how his millions of tiny sperm were probably still wiggling their way down my throat (okay, I'm getting carried away...I'll tone it down a bit). In short, I TOTALLY loved giving Allen oral sex and I knew that I wanted to do it again. I'm very grateful that he gave me that chance...at least six more times over the course of the following year. By now, you get the idea. I'd love to go on and describe in detail the rest of my oral encounters with Allen (some of them were VERY hot...maybe I'll tell you about them in subsequent posts if you'd like), but I think you know all you need to know for now. So, what I'd like to know is, does it make me gay or bi if I DON'T want a romantic relationship with another guy and I DON'T want to hug, kiss, or try anal with another guy and I DON'T find 99% of the guys I meet attractive and I DO find women sexually attractive and I ONLY want to give another guy an occasional blowjob? I know it sounds complicated...why do you think I'm asking?! Anyway, thanks in advance again for whatever advice you may have...I look forward to visiting and posting here, and I hope I can help someone else out some day.