What do you think about a 20 years old virgin?

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  1. RegenesisAgain

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    I am not 20 yet,I am 18,but I am wondering,if you will have a older friend that is a virgin,what will you think of him?Will you consider him strange,or you will behave worse with him because he is a virgin at that age?Or laugh at him.
    PS:For those who dont know,I had an account here before,but I was 17 years old,and the account has been deleted.I had my birthday some time ago,and now I have remembered about this forum.
    I have posted a topic on which I said that I will never have sex because i am to shy to find a girlfriend blah-blah-blah and dont socialize blah blah blah etc.
    Anyway,I am curios what will you think of a guy like me(shy and all that)or other type virgin a 18-20 or older?
     
  2. Dreama

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    20 years old is very young-I've known lots of young men that age who are also virgins. Who cares? Its up to them to know when the time is right.
     
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    Noting wrong with it at all. Sex is over rated. Although it's hella fun, it needs to happen at the right time not 'any time'. My boyfriend was a virgin until 19. Obviously...we started dating and yeah but he'd kept his for a long time because he strongly lived by the idea of not losing it to some random girl no matter how hot or interested he was. Personality comes first and that was the deciding factor, and should be for everyone.
     
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    I would not worry about being a virgin at your age. I happen to know someone who is still a virgin at the age of 50 and nobody thinks anything differently about her. It was her choice and people accept it. If a person thinks you are odd/strange/scared or whatever, then that's on them. They are not you, you are not them. You do what you think is right for you and not for someone else. It is your life and your choice, always remember that!!! :)
     
  5. Boblinho

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    I think that too much emphasis is put on having sex. It's not that big of a deal really, though it is fun. I lost my virginity quite early, but I do go through long periods without sex, as, like you, I'm quite shy and don't really like approaching women. I'm fine in a social situation, and can get along very well and even flirt but when it comes to the next step I'm not too good.
     
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    I was a 20 year old virgin, just cause I hadn't found the right person to lose it too. I had never been in a relationship but had plenty of opportunities to lose it and that wasn't the way I wanted it to go. I wanted a relationship first and then sex afterward. I no longer an and I don't regret waiting.
     
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    I echo this opinion. Keep it until you find someone who deserves it.
     
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    I was a virgin until I was nearly 19 and my friends never thought I was strange.... but as soon as a guy found out I was a virgin they all tried to pop the cherry lol

    Just relax..... if you are really nervous about it, you could always get an escort to pop your cherry for you!
     
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    What do I think? I think, take off her clothes and bring her to me. :eyes
     
  10. RegenesisAgain

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    :bsdm
     
  11. heelfetish

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    Only virgins put so much emphasis on being a virgin. Seriously, relax. All good will happen when the time is right. There is no magical age when you should cease to be a virgin. Instead of worrying about getting laid, you should instead work on developing your friendships and relationships. :)
     
  12. RegenesisAgain

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    Whats emphasis?:f14
    PS:Sorry,this is not my natal language,so there are words I dont know:mad
     
  13. heelfetish

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    'Importance' may be another fitting term...
     
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    He means only virgins make a big deal out of being virgins while everyone else couldn't care less
     
  15. heelfetish

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    Bingo! :)
     
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    oww! oww!! owwww!!!
     
  17. joker79507

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    Yeah, few people will make a big deal out of you being a virgin and it might actually make your future gf happy to know that you are.