What do you do if a gay guy compliments you...and you're straight?

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  1. Maddox

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    Today, someone was filming an interview with my mom and dad (I'm not off to college yet) for a TV Station called "gay-tv" which, I suppose, is broadcast from here in Key West.

    Anyway, the guy doing the interview is gay, I said bye to everyone that was here because I was going to my friend Julie's house to go biking. He said "Wow your eyes are so gorgeous, and your lips -- wow. Your eye brows? You should go spend 5 years in Italy and see where your looks can take you" and I was sort of creeped out about this.

    Should I be? Would you be?
     
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    It's never happened so up front to me but I'm pretty sure I was optically-raped by this middle aged gay couple when I was in italy. They weren't exactly trying to hide their interest.

    But that said it didn't bother me. I was 15, with my family and not gay in the slightest. Good for them.
     
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    Um, it's not really a big deal. Say thanks and go on. It doesn't make you gay to accept the compliment....Just be happy that someone thinks you're hot. :)
     
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    I'd say just be flattered by it. Thats how i would feel anyway.
     
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    My gay mates never compliment me:( They say I'm too slovenly and I need to shave, but so as not to be hurtful they assure me that underneath my rough exterior there is probably a nice looking guy, although they are still to see him.

    If they were to compliment me I'd feel very nice indeed although I'd be a little embarrassed as I'm not used to compliments:eek:
     
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    When my dad was in the Navy he was stationed in San Fransisco and said he used to be complimented and hit on frequently by gay men, along the lines of: "I know you're not gay, Steve...but if you ever change your mind..."

    His usual response was just to thank them.
     
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    Ill take as a compliment , i wont be offended, as im safe with my sexuality.
     
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    It would just make me feel good about myself and very happy that others think i am hot. No big deal, just be happy about it.
     
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    I agree
     
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    I was happy and accepted the compliment, but I was still sort of weirded out because I've never had a man compliment me....well at least I know I appeal to both sexes, haha.
     
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    Say thanks!?
     
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    nothing to be scared about, say thanks and walk on then be chuffed that you've pulled a bloke aswell. doesn't make ya gay
     
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    i would find it a little awkward of course but i would nicely say thank you but im not interested/gay but i dont see any reason to make it into a problem, unless of course somone starts just grabbing all over you, but that would be a different story.. i wouldnt appreciate that too much but no ones going to do that to you
     
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    I didn't find it wierd until he said this, after he complimented me and said I should try acting or modeling or something...

    Your brother, he's gonna go after the girls
    But you, you're gonna get the millionaires. But I don't know if they will be girls *laughs*

    ...weird.
     
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    Thorn & I stumbled upon a bar that catered to gay/lesbians.

    I was given several "compliments", from bi/lesbian chicks, and I thought is was just that... compliments. It's nice to be thought of as hot to someone who is attracted to your sex... whatever that may be.
     
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    Realize he probably says that to hundreds of guys, hoping 1 of them will let him bugger them.
     
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    That might be true in some cases, just like when some men compliment women and are just fishing for the right response for themselves.

    BUT!!l People of any sexuality can give compliments without ulterior motives so you shouldn't be suspicious, just take it at face value:)
     
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    ^^^ true.....
     
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    One time my friend was handing out flyers outside a club and I tagged along with him. A guy comes up and starts hitting on us and after awhile realizes we aren't gay and tells us that we are at a gay club.

    I was flattered but like Ulu said he probably just wanted some action.
     
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    lol just don't look and walk away slowly.....lol