What do you consider sex?

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  1. FlaminFrancesca

    FlaminFrancesca New Member

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    I did a search, and didn't find this topic, but if its a repeat, I apologize in advance!

    I'm wondering what everyone considers sex to be? Meaning, do you consider oral sex to be sex? Anal? Manual? Only if it ends in orgasm? Or even if it doesn't?
    We've been having some things in the news down here lately about jr. high school kids not classifying oral sex as sex, and being relatively lackadaisical (sp?) about it...
    I consider it all to fall under the category of sex, but I may be on the conservative side.
    Of course, since hubby and I have 2 young kids, and any form of hormonal birth control kills my sex drive and gives me migraines, and condoms make him positively flaccid, lol, about 80% of our sex is oral sex or other... its very frequent and multiply orgasmic, just not usually penile-vaginal penetration... are we totally abnormal?
     
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    I agree it is all sex and have heard that the kids today are thinking that oral is not really sex. Do you reckon they got that idea from our Ex. Pres.?
     
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    Sex is sex is sex. Oral is sex, anal is sex, fingering or jerking your partner is sex.

    Off Topic:
    Procrastination is like masturbation; in the end, you're only screwing yourself.
     
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    I have heard that ("oral is not sex") as well.

    I believe that any sexual stimulation that involves interaction between two people is sex.
    And A1, your procrastination statement is not really 'Off Topic' :
    That said, if two people engage in mutual masturbation (touching only them selves, and not each other), they are : "...only screwing themselves". So that would not be considered having sex.
    Right?
     
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    cybersex, masturbation, oral, anal...are all sex to me.
     
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    I think it's all SEX.

    And Rose I would call it sex if I said to you let's go to the bedroom and watch each other masturbate. If a teenager is making out with his date and he gets a hard-on I think that is sex. Although if that's as far as it went he doesn't have the right to say, "Sally and I had sex together last night." ;)

    teamster - I was thinking the same thing about Bill Clinton. "I did not have sex with that woman" the my cigar did.:lol
     
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    Oh Good Grief, Thorn!
    Even the bible says that the temptation of doing something wrong is not wrong- but the acting on it crosses the line.
    Who are you? - And what have you done with my husband? :lol
     
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    I will look so I can be absolutely correct but I believe it says if you look at another woman with lust in your heart you have already committed adultery. Dont jump on me yet let me do some looking.
     
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    hehehe,
    Thats fantastic, I love it!


    I'm glad to find I'm not alone.

    Perhaps Clinton did have something to do with it... heehee, I might turn to an intern to, if I had to go home to Hilary :ugh

    Sorry, that was looooow.......
    Heaven forbid she run for pres and win, but thats another forum altogether!
     
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    Sex is sexual intercorse, penetration.

    Oral sex is oral sex, hand job is a hand job, anal sex is anal sex. ect...
     
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    I'm not saying anything is wrong or right Rose. All I'm saying is it's all SEX. :ugh
     
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    I stand corrected. We weren't discussing if we considered something right or wrong, just if it was considered "sex".
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    Now, close your laptop. Supper is ready.:)
     
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    Rose, that smiley just scares me ...
     
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    I agree with the most of you, it's all sex too me.
     
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    ok Matthew 5:28 says "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart"
     
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    I pretty much agree with what Rose said. Sometimes there is a fine line. Masturbating each other, I would call sex. Just watching the other one masturbate themselves is not.
     
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    What do you consider sex?

    I'd say I consider sex to be one of the most wonderful things on planet earth that remains free of tax!

    Enjoy every aspect of it in all its guises :brow
     
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    Sex : When 2 people like each other very much, they give a special kind of hug.


    Thats what i learned in Catholic school. Might explain why i get turned on with my girl wearing the catholic schoolgirl outfit.
     
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    i consider sex when the dick enters the pussy
     
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