I did a search, and didn't find this topic, but if its a repeat, I apologize in advance! I'm wondering what everyone considers sex to be? Meaning, do you consider oral sex to be sex? Anal? Manual? Only if it ends in orgasm? Or even if it doesn't? We've been having some things in the news down here lately about jr. high school kids not classifying oral sex as sex, and being relatively lackadaisical (sp?) about it... I consider it all to fall under the category of sex, but I may be on the conservative side. Of course, since hubby and I have 2 young kids, and any form of hormonal birth control kills my sex drive and gives me migraines, and condoms make him positively flaccid, lol, about 80% of our sex is oral sex or other... its very frequent and multiply orgasmic, just not usually penile-vaginal penetration... are we totally abnormal?