What do you class as Bi-sexual

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  1. sugar n spice

    sugar n spice New Member

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    Hi guys,
    Finally somewhere I can safely ask this question :lol

    My BF and I have been debating about this for a long time so hopefully someone can help with an outside opinion.

    I am a woman and am attracted to other women. However, I would never be in a relationship with another woman (I love cock way too much :lol ) and I have no desire to go all the way with another woman ie. I can't see myself going down on another girl.

    I have been involved with two threesomes, both with one guy and another girl, which I enjoyed heaps and want to do again. I pretty stayed above the waist with the other girl, but she went down on me.

    So, the arguement is I don't think I'm fully bi-sexual, but I'm way past the bi-curious stage. My BF on the other hand thinks I am Bi-sexual. But I always think of someone that is bi-sexual is equally attracted to either sex. I personally couldn't be with a woman without a guy there, to me being with a women is like fore play, I need a good banging from a guy afterwards.

    What do you think? And what is your definition of bi-sexual?
     
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    My wife has had relationships with two of her friends that turned into threeways with me. In both cases, the two women got sexual with each other and then incorporated me (kicking and screaming - not) into the picture. After that, they lost interest in being alone together but used me as their community property.

    I think this is very common with women. I would term it bi-friendly.
     
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    I agree.... bi-friendly. I think someone who is bisexual is one who can see him or her self comfortably with someone of the same sex. The thought of touching them, being touched by them, tasting them.... is a turn on.
     
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    I agree with Mel! :)
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  5. sugar n spice

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    Thanks guys! I'm flying out too see BF in 2 hours (he's working in a different city at the moment for the next few weeks) so I can tell him that other's agree with me! :D

    I love the term Bi-friendly by the way, you have summed it up perfectly. Thankyou.
     
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    :)
    Have fun!
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    Hey! Thats a tough question, I've spent the last hour Googling bisexual
    and did not find a clear cut answer to your question, but i did find this.
    Also when you get back tell us why you had partial sex with another Woman.
    If it was His idea and you reluctantly agreed,, Well I would call that Permissive.

    Hiker:sf
     
  8. sugar n spice

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    Haven't left yet so I can tell you now lol

    It wasn't just his idea. I was the one who brought it up and he was very pleasantly surprised. I am not the type of person who would do something I didn't want to do.
    I am very attracted to other women, and find the female body to be incredibly beautiful, like a piece of art. So I think being with another woman to me is kind of like appreciating a master piece.
    Like I said in my original post, I have no desire to be in a relationship with another woman, but certainly don't mind taking the opportunity if I meet a girl that we are very attracted to and vice versa. This has only happened twice in 4 years so it is a very rare occurance :)

    I couldn't find anything clear cut on the subject either which is why I thought I'd ask LOL It can get a bit confusing explaining how I feel lol

    Thankyou for the replies and your opinions I really appreciate it :)
     
  9. heelfetish

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    That's a fantastic quote, hiker! :tup
     
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    If you can't find a label, then I guess we'll just say, you are what you are. You sound like a pretty cool person, whatever you call it.
     
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    My opinion is that, in my case, I love women and that is what I prefer but I want it clear that I will also do things with a man so it is ok if they ask or touch or whatever. If we meet another couple, I will not touch a straight man and he will not touch me. If he says he is bi, then I feel I can touch him, suck him, and he will be ok with it. My wife is not bi but she will allow women to suck her tits. She will not touch the other woman so we advertised that she is not bi. Telling friends that you are bi just means they can touch you and you won't get mad about it.
     
  12. Elvis

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    In the European swinger world a woman who hasn't completed the course would be labelled 'Bi Curious' by her peers.
    To be Bisexual it is necessary to have been completely bisexual with another female. In other words, to have given and taken all the things that bisexual females would normally enjoy.

    The list for females is: Hetero, Bicurious, Bisexual, Lesbian.
    Take your pick.