[Ask a Girl] what do woman like the most from a man to satisfy her

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  1. onlyfun

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    just asking this question to woman, what do woman like from a man, boyfriend,husband etc.....It seems us men just cant get it properly right in bed, is it size of a mans willy, the way he uses it, loads of forplay......Also what is the most common fantasy for woman????????please answer, really want to get to the feminin side of me.....lol...
     
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    hmm I can say that I like it when my bf is treating me like a princess and a real gentleman-not in bed but general. With his actions and behaviour through the day it makes me wanting him more and more.. and when we are in bed he cuddles with me and tells me nice things (how beautiful I am..etc. and he looks me deep in my eye). He has also a nice sent that drives me crazy! He is doing everything but not pushing me to have sex. That drives me crazy and I tease him back.. Then he starts to kissing me. But not on my lips.. he kiss me hands,arms,breasts,belly my legs.. you have to know the erogene zones of your gf/wife. then he starts to touching me between my legs. but not too hard or rubbing my clit.. just some gentle touches. and then he tells me how nice I feel..and how it makes him feel. and then he put my hand on his hard cock and tell me how hard I make him... well it's a interaction of words and touches..and kissing lots of wet passionate kissing...
     
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    thanks for the comment. I dont think I do too badly, gunna give me wife a really nice massage from toes to her neck and then slowely work in her sexual bits...
     
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    When I was growing up I remember hearing that pornography for women was the romance novels that used to be sold everywhere. While they were busy criticizing men for looking at porn, they were busy reading it - their double standard.
     
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    A Mills and Boon novel is about as pornographic as Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition. Arousing maybe but nothing compared to what most think of as porn.
     
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    There is no single answer...It varies from women to women. You have to ask your gf/wife what she wants most?

    For me, I want my male partner to start kissing my feet and keep going up ..licking my legs and thighs...Then I want him to start licking me over my panty for sometime... It starts making me wet...I also like when he licks my thighs just beside the panty line...Then I want my partner to remove my panties and use his tongue slowly...I want him to tell me to use his mouth for my pleasure and he wants me to cum inside his mouth and he wants to swallow it all...Then I like few vertical, horizontal and circular licking action...I also want him to lick the skin between my pussy & ass hole...(I am not much favor of getting my asshole directly licked ...but many of my friends likes that too) I like when he makes his tongue full flat and gives me slow long licks starting from bottom to top of my pussy...Then mixture of all these actions for some time...Then I want to hold his head tight and start fucking his face and mouth (very fast and hard) to get to my climax inside his mouth....I hardly cum from penetration, so I am generally not worried about his size etc etc...All I care is how good he can lick me and stimulate me orally and how hard he can make me cum while I facefuck him...

    BTW: To create the mood I always see some video (along with my male partner) where the video has this type of content (female getting serviced my male mouth & tongue) solely and nothing else...Many of my friends also prefer this type of video and actions ...But yes some of them have other choices too...

    So, ask your partner what she wants...Show her movies of different types and ask about her choices ...next onwards play those types of movies to build her feelings prior to action...

    Note: A lot of girls really like to receive oral sex, but many of my friends complain that in many cases boys don't know exactly how to do it right...Its always better that the guys know how to do proper cunnilingus...A good video tutorial can help..."Tristan Taormino Expert Guide To Oral Sex Cunnilingus" is a good video tutorial which I have shown to my male partner...I have also shown him Madeline's one of the episodes where she is giving the instructions to a male to lick her properly...
     
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    I just noticed that you have also posted another topic where you mentioned that your wife wanted to see lesbian porn...Just a hunch......It may mean that she wants to get her pussy licked (As in many of the lesbian porn this is the theme) ... Ask her if that she wants or not......

    Show her several types of porn (Try to Make sure they are not in same film) (a) Pussy Licking and having orgasm from that (preferably male licking female pussy) (b) Penetration & having orgasm from that... (c) cock sucking......And ask which porn she liked more...You may get your wife's choice from the answer....For ex: Any cock sucking in porn is a big turnoff for me...I just don't want to watch cock sucking scenes .... because I don't want to do it either to my boyfriend :)...On the contrary, I like to see only and only pussy licking scenes and female orgasm from that...because that's what I want my boyfriend to do for me...
     
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    Damn cutegirl, you got me all fired up, can't wait to go home to the little lady, she's in for a treat!
     
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    OMG I feel like I just cheated on my wife reading that.... Thats Hot!!! :ugh
     
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    All the best:)...Give her the best pleasure of her life...
     
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    I agree with what teacher said above there. I love the way my boyfriend treats me. And I love how turned on he gets from turning me on. If I'm just blowing him he's hard, but if he touches my boobs or my pussy he gets incredibly hard. I love knowing that my body turns him on like that and feeling it in his penis. He also listens to me when I tell him what I want, which has made him very good at pleasing me.
     
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    Techinques and trying new things are very important. For me, an openminded husband has been my biggest turn on. His mind is better than just about anything else.
     
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    What I like the most in a man, and what leads to the most satisfaction on my part is, him having enough confidence and sexual instinct to satisfy without me having to tell him how to go about doing it .
     
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    A big cock 6" plus, stamina and good technique