What do the men like?

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  1. sug@r

    sug@r New Member

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    Hi everyone,

    I'm new to the forum and is hoping that you can all help me out a bit!

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and a bit. We have wonderful sex, however although he likes to try various positions we have never brought toys into the picture. He loves lingerie, but I want to know what else makes a man go wild? To spice it up!

    Any suggestions:)
     
  2. CyCo_SoMaTiC

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    Let's see, whipped cream is always fun, body massages are great.....I know it sounds corny, but have you ever done a striptease for him?

    Although, I've learned really....if you're in love with the person, it's the intimate things you do(i.e. cuddling, holding hands, making out) that truly bring out the passion. The things I've listed above are all fun sexual diversions, but really if he loves you, it won't matter.
     
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    Personally, I like it when a woman takes charge! Make it clear that YOU want him, tell him what you want and how to do it right! "Make" him pleasure you.

    Good luck.
     
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    i agree with that, i like it when awomen takes charge
     
  5. longnstrong

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    yeah i like it when the woman is aggressive and using me to get off rather then trying to help me.

    Another thing bring in another girl(s) into it. give him BJs when he is not ready for them in places that he wouldnt expect.. Hand cuff him. Flirt with girls. Watch porn with him.
     
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    Be confident...nothing is sexier than walking around naked knowing youre the shit...
    unexpected blowjobs are also great, i know my boyfriends morning wood, never goes unoticed...
    telling him how much he turns you on, and how he makes you feel, expecially how your pussy feels when your around him...my boyfriend loves when im graphic with him, almost vulgar.
    Sometimes i wonder if my vagina has its own heartbeat. :D
     
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    I don't like for a woman to take charge. I like to be the dominant one. I like my woman to be submissive.

    And, I like when she wears lingerie. Stockings... garters... high heels...
     
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    Oh ya! Definitely! We aren't strangers to girl/girl sex and I get excited by her just talking about flirting with women.
     
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    I don't have anything new to add, but i'll second the unexpected bj, taking charge and watching porn together.
     
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    have your way with him while he is wearing a blind fold and listening to an ipod play list you made. with headphones.
     
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    As you can see from the responses, every man is different in what turns him on. You need to picque his brain. Either flat-out ask him, or take notice of things to which he 'takes a second notice'.
    You mention toys, so I'm thinking that you want to know what he might like? Guys DO tend to love the simple visual of a real-looking dildo going inside their woman. Vibrators are always a nice addtion (but look for the quieter ones, as loud monster motors detract from the mood). And with vibrators, both you and he can get sexual pleasure by using it right!

    Good luck!
     
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    Strip for him, nice lap dance, some good head... Sexy lingerie is nice... Tease him all day long drive him nuts and make him wait...
     
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    Better yet go to the Strip club with him and you get a lap dance.
     
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    lingerie, toys, and varying positions are all I need. Anal too, but only if you're into it. :)
     
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    do it anywhere anytime out of the blue, suck and jerk at same time, strip for him, wear the sexy lingere, talk nasty, take charge, be aggresive
     
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    I have learned to talk with ur man and see what he likes and loves, you could also sneak in some ideas and see how he reacts, I have found Treating Master like he is the only one in the world and making him feel like it really drives him crazy and he also knows I truly love him.
     
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    Oh I do Love it. She actully says I,m her Master and treats me that way. But in a very Loving way of course. It does make me smile and happy a lot that she is there to do what ever I want. Within reason of course.

    Another thing men love and this is a shhhh Thing hehe. Teasing. Trust me. Drives them crazyyyy. Works for woman too. LOL


     
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    handcuffs

    wow - it feels a little crude to say this - but if it were me...

    i would love it if you put on a crotchless tong, handcuffed yourself to the bed leg, stretched out on the floor, preferably hardwoods and asked him to fuck you senseless and cum in your mouth :)

    Speaking of which - my wife and I just started a new game where we take turns calling the shots - as to what kind of sex we're going to have - it's my turn and I've been dreaming up the aforementioned all week - can't wait!!
     
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    I Lika Sex...its Niice!
     
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    Men Like when u touch there Penis, and hard core sex. thats in my opinion though.