[Ask a Girl] What do orgasms feel like?

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  1. Pickway

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    I know this may be a stupid question as I have asked previous partners this and they cant really discribe it, but I thought there may be a woman on here who can describe what they feel physically when they have an orgasm. I know every woman is different but I was just curious. Is there a feeling you get that says your gonna come now. As a guy I get a tingling in the root of my penis and then I know its the point of no return.
     
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    Yes, and we can have different kinds of orgasms too. So there can be a lot of different answers. BTW, the question isn't stupid. I think a lot of people want to know this. I'm always curious about what it feels like for men and I've asked the boyfriend a lot about it.

    Sometimes when I'm about to have an orgasm I think "This time I'll pay attention." I do want to know what happens to my body, to be able to follow along with all the effects, how stimulating a few areas of my body takes over my whole body. I think it's one of the very few truly whole-body experiences.

    But I usually don't manage to keep track. I get lost in it as usual instead. I'm just left with an impression of one big wow. Not that I'm complaining. I suppose I can start with your question about the feeling I get that says I'm going to cum now. I know that I get very buzzy in and around my clitoris--kind of sharp and almost too much to stand, but don't stop. My thighs get hot and tense. My muscles just inside clamp up. My face feels funny and I can't see straight. No matter how good it felt as it was building up, the sudden jump in the pleasure catches me by surprise every time. It's almost like I don't remember from one time to the next how good it actually feels. Maybe that's why I usually swear when I'm about to cum.

    More later, after I've thought about it. And after I've done some...er...self research.
     
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    Thank you for the description, It certainly sounds like a powerful experience. It seems like women get a more overall feeling then men (that's just my personal thoughts, there may be men that get this too)
    I guess it's that for women, it's mostly happening inside rather that outside like men.
     
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    Wow!! That was.... Inspirational lol very hot description. Look forward to hearing more after you "self research" lol
     
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    For me it's different. I get really tense in the lead up but at the point of no return i actually relax, and possibly start to breathe again. Physically it can vary.
    Sometimes it's just a spasm with shots of pleasure, sometimes my whole body shakes due to i have no idea why. Usually that orgasm is stonger that time. The spasms are more pronounced and i can feel it better/more enjoyable.
    I don't get any buzzing at all. I just get greater and greater pleasure right at the lead up to the orgasm.
    I get a "sensation" also, down there, which i didn't know what caused it, but its the vaginal walls clamping down REALLY hard just before the spasming starts sometimes for a good few seconds. That sensation is also really nice. :)
    hth.