what do i buy her on first date?

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  1. boyo

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    Hi,

    I am meeting a girl purely for fun/sex.. what should i buy her? Flowers, chocs, wine? She sai dshe is buying in drinks so i guess wine is not good.

    Any thoughts?
     
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    Diamonds always go over well.
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    Okay, seriously... if it is understood that it is totally for fun/sex, then how about a nice toy - nothing too monstrous - maybe a good vibrating thing that can be used in conjunction with your regular sex.
    Also, if it's fun you are getting into, how about some thick chocolate sauce :brow when things get heated, have it right handy and pull it out (have it opened already). ASK if it is alright, then pour just a bit. first on her arm... and slowly lick it up ...then perhaps her leg... work up to more sensual areas.
     
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    can't afford it unfortunatly :p
     
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    :whoa - no chocolate sauce?
    But make sure it's FUDGE!!!!
    (I know - I edited it before you saw the rest. :p)
     
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    Rose,

    Your thoughts on a good toy were exactly mine in view of the original posting! No more comments needed from me as you said it.
     
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    she might already have toys, plus i don't think i can get one by friday. i was thinking of getting something in the way of saying thanks. not sure if a toy is a good idea.
     
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    Boyo,

    Honestly mate, perhaps I misunderstood your original posting, me, perhaps like Rose, assuming that it was like a done deal that the sex part would be definite.

    If I have misunderstood things, I personally would not feel the need to turn up with any particular gift, unless it is the case that you know what gifts she specifically likes.

    I'd finally say, just turn up and be yourself, relax and enjoy it!
     
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    it is purely for sex, but i see her as a good friend and want to show her that i appreciate what she is doing (as it is my first time) and wanted to say thanks. I thought about flowers, but do you think that is a bit weird?
     
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    I think a rose would be nice, and you could also bring some munchies. Chocolate sauce, as Rose mentioned, along with some fresh strawberries would be good. Maybe some other goodies if you know what she likes.

    I wouldn't worry about a real "gift", as you don't want it to appear as payment.
     
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    I think Joe is right.I think that'll work.
     
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    Oooooh.... I didn't know all those details. That does make a difference. The toys may be a bit much. Even the chocolate sauce could get a little... tricky...

    I'm with Joe on this one. A single rose, with a kiss on her cheek as you present it to her. Keep it simple, it will make everything less complicated in the long run.
    :brow Have a nice time, boyo! ;)