How much did you know when you embarked on your sexual journey? I know the first time I had sex I didn't have a damn clue what I was doing, or, to be honest, what he was doing. I'd experimented with females, but never intercourse. No experimentation with that until I was sixteen. I kid you not, until I began using tampons at 15 I didn't know I had anything but a "peehole" and a "poophole". Even after menstruating for two or three years, I didn't know. Later, at EIGHTEEN, and I'm not kidding, I had no idea what he thought he was doing when he went to put his head between my thighs. I'd never heard or thought such a thing. Now, I knew how to suck a cock. I'd been taught and forced more than once. I learned everything as I went. Now, I'm thrilled that more people are talking about sex, openly, candidly. I think that's great! I'm concerned, however, with this tendency I'm seeing for young adults to believe that they ought to go into sex knowing exactly what they are doing, being good at it, etc. Anyone else with me?