what constitutes sex?

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  1. sinner

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    I was read the "how many guy/girls" thread and it made wonder what do we call sex? I guess its the old bill clinton question. The first night that I was with my wife we both stayed fully clothed but were grinding so hards when we were making out that we both came. (We agreed on our second date that we should dispense any modest pretenses). Was that sex or just hot making out. What about other safe sex/non penetration acts? And what is "cyber sex exactly?"
     
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    to me..

    sex = penetration (be it anal or vaginal)
    oral sex = oral sex
    grinding = dry humping whether or not one or both or neither of you came

    cyber sex is.. the act of describing what you would be doing to the other person if they were their with you - I consider any form of sexual acts done in this manner to be cyber sex
     
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    I guess I should have asked : Is cyber sex more like watching porn or like actual sex?
     
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    it's more like watching porn.. only without the pictures
     
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    cybersex example from here

    it's a bit um :lol worthy :D

     
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    And I thought that fantasies were always perfect. That was hilarious.
     
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    you get the gist of cyber sex now tho :D

    I've gotten this in an email before.. just made me LOL I used to save my hotter cyber sex stories to masturbate to later :eek:
     
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    Wellhung: I'm flaccid.

    Sweetheart: WHAT?

    Wellhung: I'm limp. I can't sustain an erection.

    Sweetheart: I'm standing up and turning around; an incredulous look on my face.

    Now that's funny stuff!
     
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    sorry sinner.. not meaning to turn this into an LOL thread but yea... it was that or writing up a short version myself.. and I'm lazy tonight!
     
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    If either party gets off on it, it's sex.
     
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    That's pretty much my definition too. :eyes
     
  12. sinner

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    That's alright feel free to hijack any thread of mine. I might still need some lessons in the cyber thing though. LOL