i don't have any major health issues, but then since i was a teen i never had much sexual confidence. i was a bit weird, and not the best looker, so i didn't get much girls. and i think it got to my mind and then knocked my ability to get hardons very full. it's like back then, whenever i'd get a hardon, i'd have like thoughts in my mind about how girls wouldn't like me so what's the point. most girls then used to say i was an ugly shit, but meh, i don't care now, to be honest didn't much back then..i know my limits and accepted myself for who i was. now i'm more confident overall, but issue is there still. i can see a woman, feel mentally and physically turned on, but not full below. another thing is that i am endowed, nearly eight inches, and my cousin got a hook up for me, and that time i was horny not fully hard, but hard to about 7 inches and she said i was big. i feel bad, and know this will sound shallow, but meh...that as i'm large women out there are missing out cos i have it to make them feel good and full....(i said it get over it lol) i made an appt. with a doctor, but then i don't like therapists cos they say sex is wrong, but i'm going back since they'll have to section me for having sex. but is it psychological, and if so what will/can they do? btw, i'm 23 now, and this issue has been there since i was 14.