[Ask a Girl] what a slut

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  1. nurseharley

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    ladies, do you mind your man calling you a slut in the bedroom? maybe in the heat of the moment letting a 'good little slut' slip out :p

    guys, do you or would you like calling your girl a slut when things got intense?

    or do you find this demeaning?
     
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    Personally...demeaning, but I get the context you are referring to. It just wouldn't roll off my tongue naturally.
     
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    i think it's a huge turn on. i don't find it demeaning because i know he means it in a good way - i'm all his and i'm willing to do whatever it is to make him cum sort of thing.

    obviously there's a time and place for it but when used at the right time it works wonders.
     
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    My gf wants me to call her a slut and a private whore... It makes her feel submissive, feminine and it makes her want to be fucked real good.

    Girls, don't hate a guy for have called you this in the bedroom. It is a fantasy that helps you two tap into a new dimension of your sexlife. I dress my girl up like a schoolgirl, or she or I put on a blindfold and cuffs, so the other person gets total freedom to exploit the other.

    So. Its a fantasy, go along with it, girls perhaps might think of it as offensive, but that is really short sighted, bad society programming and perhaps a sign of a bad relationship and a shortage of mutual trust. Just be his slut now and then, make him happy.
     
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    I have never had anyone say that in bed but wouldnt mind. The only word I absolutely will not allow is cunt. I hate that word.
     
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    I could never say the word.
     
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    While I don't think she'd care. I'd throw out a test balloon and ask her "hey what would you say if I said ____ in the heat of passion?"

    I don't find slut as demeaning as say, whore or cum dumpster. Which the latter never goes over to well, but that's another story. Lol
     
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    lol cum dumpster. yeah that was different but i still kinda liked it :lol
     
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with treating your woman like a whore during the dirty/naughty/rough sex, time and place sort of thing. I like it
     
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    I often turn the negative connotations of that word on its head. I sometimes tell my wife (in a playful manner) that I wish she was a bit more "slutty". Frankly, I never got the problem some people have with "slutty" girls, particularly not men who just slept with a girl, only to badmouth her afterward. I mean, WTF?
     
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    I think said in the right context, "slut" can work and may even be fun, but I don't know any woman that is ok with someone dropping the C-bomb.
     
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    During a good hot n heavy fuck session I like name callin
     
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    ooo, I could never drop the C-hunt word. BIG no no there. Even if I said it and I was 3 counties away and by myself. A woman would still find out and hunt me down. Now that's some scary shit.
     
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    hi, it's nice to meet you

    ok now you know one lol

    i'm pretty ok with any names in the bedroom, except some other woman's....or bitch.

    if you can't be a slut for your guy, then who can you be a slut for :D
     
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    oops
     
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    I haven't used the word cunt yet, if thats the c word you meant
     
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    This is a word I wouldn't use in my wildest moments unless this is a role play and/or my girl loves being talked dirty to and it drives her wild.
     
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    I feel like it would be a turn on. Especially since it would be the guy on the dominant end ^_^
     
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    Not slut. That wouldn't feel right coming out of my mouth. I guess everyone has their variations on what just doesn't work for them. Either that or out of respect for what they know their partner wouldn't receive the right way.
     
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    When things get steamy I usually use it, I find it makes things more sexy.