[Ask a Girl] What a girl wants

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  1. tugabro

    tugabro New Member

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    Oh hi there! I'm 18 (almost 19) and I'm still a vergin -_-'' heh..
    Anyways, since I have no "real sex" experience I have quite a few ideas in mind.

    Generally guys like to have hardcore sex, make girls wanting to suck his penis and so on!
    However, I think differently. I don't know if this is a fantasy or not but... all I want is to give her pleasure, which will pleasure me as well. The following things i would love to do someday:
    "lick vagina and clit; lick her anus; touch and lick her nipples; kiss her; and give her anal sex heh, I guess this last one is a classic ^^). (and normal sex as well of course).

    Anyways, I would like girls to answer me what they think about this? Is this what you all really wanted to get and men don't really care about most of the times?
    I'm kinda septic and so I'm not sure if I really do believe if all of the "girl users" registered here are really women, although I would be happy if that was so.
     
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    You have been watching too much porn! A couple's sexual dynamics change from session to session: for example this (Sunday) morning it was nice, relaxing and romantic lay-in sex. This is what I wanted, but also what my wife wanted as well. This means we kissed and hugged and I nibbled on the side of her neck, gently played with her breasts, I went down on her until she orgasmed, she gave me a couple of minutes of pleasant oral sex, and then we finished with some slow and relaxing missionary position intercourse.

    Other times may be more raunchy, but mostly it's about loving my wife and enjoying her feelings of love for me. The other extreme is one of our rare rows, and the make up sex which follows can be really out of control!

    As far as anal sex goes, it depends on the woman and how confident she feels about it. You shouldn't really be thinking of such things until you have had conventional sex a few times (or many, many times). Anal is tricky, I've only had it a few times with women who were VERY experienced in it. My wife doesn't want to go there and I understand. My problem is partly due to my girthy six and a bit inches, but even without my size anal sex is tricky. In any case pussy is delightful, and so easy and it feels really, really nice. Don't be a porn star before you can walk, 'cause vaginal intercourse is lovely, more lovely than you can imagine.
     
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    Some guys are just selfish all people are normally, guys who are smart know that giving is as good as receiving. A girl your age is normally a bit apprehensive about her first time with a guy assuming it's her first time now a days girls often experience sex for their first time in their early teens. My own theory is a girl should do it with an older guy who she can feel comfortable with and let him take the initiative he will know how to please a girl and have the patience to take his time and pace things based on how she's reacting to things some people are more body shy than others some are more adventurous than others, one size doe not fit all! When and with who is your decision and yours only!!:)

    Jim
     
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    Thanks for the replies so far! Looking forward to see girls posting as well =)
     
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    Every girl wants something different-you just need to get a girlfriend before you start worrying about this stuff. Porn shouldn't set the standard for your interactions with women. And what guys generally want is subjective anyway-because every person is different. Men don't always act like they do in porn.
     
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    Yeah. I'd like to say the same thing. Get away from the porn!!
     
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    If you're septic then I'd suggest you see a doctor and get a prescription for antibiotics.

    Also, your post is full of assumptions that suggest your entire sense of sexual reality is based on what you've seen in porn. Real life sex is nothing at all like porn. Most women do not enjoy anal sex, or deep throating, or facials, and most men do not have ten-inch penises.
     
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    -_-'' What I mean is.. we can't believe everyone we see in the interwebs. I could claim I would be a girl, and you guys believe whereas that's not a reality. That was not nice to start with...but whatever.

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    EDIT: Haha, I'm so sorry. I misspelled what I wanted to say. (sorry my english). In portuguese we havea similar word, and so I though it could work for english as well heh my bad.. Anyways I look in wikipedia and you were right when you wanted to send me see a doctor lol. I think you understand what I mean with previous post. I just don't know the right word :x srry
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    I didn't say girl's like anal sex etc.! I just mentioned my "fantasies", one of them being, anal sex...
     
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    Ahh you speak portugeuse! AWESOME!

    but umm yeah porn = no, don't go by that. Most of the women are faking anyway. Seems like you just need a steady girlfriend and experiment from there. ALWAYS USE A CONDOM.
     
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    Hehe, thanks^^.
    That's true, porn actresses act fake..
    Yes, I never though of doing vaginal/anal penetration someday with someone without using the condom!!
    Here's another question by the way.. is it "safe" to practice the cunnilingus and vagina "licking", sorry for wild terms, without anything protecting? I mean, if both me and the girl consult a doctor and he says we're both healthy, then we can do that? Or this doctor thing is not really necessary?
     
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    If neither of you have STDs, oral sex is fine to do. You may want to get tested, as would your partner for complete safety.
     
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    Well you will know what to do when the time comes if you get time to know your woman start slow because is your first time and don't try to test all you have see in porn the first day. God didn't made the world in one day
     
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    check ouit, Real Sex segments on HBO! I always have good luck with those!