Wet?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by littlelady, Feb 15, 2008.

  1. littlelady

    littlelady New Member

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    Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, the sex is amazing, and im still very attracted to him, but i dont get nearly as wet as i used to and it sometimes can make it uncomfortable for both of us. We do use lube occasionally but id rather not. Any reason why i dont get wet anymore? Or how i can fix this?
     
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    Longer anticipation time, more petting, more oral play. That's the simple answer.
     
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    And thats about it.
    Of course you won't get as wet as you did when you
    first started having sex. But you shouldn't have any pain either
    so just slow down and try to enjoy the foreplay more
    or get into role playing that makes you think more about sex
    and will get you wetter.

    Hiker

     
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    There's no harm in using a little bit of lube, we use it a lot. Regardless of how much effort, over time arousal always settles with a long-term couple. Lube is better than discomfort.

    The best way I know for massive wet arousal is to be separated for a while (like a business trip). But regular every-second-day sex is different.
     
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    yorkiesmurf New Member

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    It can be age, hormone, medication, strees, or a combination of the three. Best thing if you are worried is to seek the advice of a qualified medical practitioner as they can help you with this issue.
     
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    Yeah...definately more petting. gotta have the petting. Yeah get to the petting more..:D
     
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    try and get in the habit of anticipating something new as well. if you have something new and original you can look forward to going into it, it'll get you more aroused for sure
     
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    Lots of foreplay..don't rush straight into it..foreplay can be a lot more rewarding than the actual sex act with the right partner