Wet and Wild

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by WC1989, Oct 7, 2014.

  1. WC1989

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    Catchy title huh ;)

    Back on topic.. The bf and I are looking for a new lube. I purchased:

    http://m.cvs.com/mt/www.cvs.com/shop/product-detail/Astroglide-Personal-Lubricant-Gel?skuId=259024

    And we both hate it. Gets like a sticky adhesive when stroking him and leaves a weird residue on me. Not a fan. Maybe due to it being a gel? Not sure. I've heard people rave over astroglide so I wanted to give it a shot. Not for us. Maybe we just need a liquid v a gel? I figured liquid = mess, but who knows.

    Opinions and suggestions appreciated :)

    Please and thank you
     
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    H2O ... It's her lube of choice... Likes the peppermint flavor.. But likes all the fruit flavored too. She only uses it for oral tho, she has her own built in lube factory that seems to take care of her own needs... And yes , she tastes better than peppermint.. Lol
     
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    If your guy gets wet, precum, like I do, there is no need for any lube if you work him right.
    For the giving part, I never had a need to use anything when things get naturally wet.
    Also my preference since I can give oral anytime without worrying about the lube although there are some that are fine to taste.
    Always had a preference for chocolate flavor when I used it years ago.
    Going to a massage place once, baby oil was used at the end, it worked fine.
     
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    Oh darn. I thought we were gonna get to talk about dripping wet men with a little length on their hair. You're sitting there watching the droplets move their way down the strand and drop onto their massive heaving chest....

    Sliquid....we like a lot it but we really only need it for anal sex and with a vibe.
     
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    H2O is really good and easily available. If you're able to find Climax though, go with that. I've never had issue with it getting tacky, even after prolonged use.
     
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    I say we all get together and try them all out!
     
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    I second that as long as im not paired with you - no offence lol
     
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    None taken!
     
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    Seems like a reasonable plan.
     
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    I get to peg HFH first :p
     
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    Our only uses for lube are for stroking him and anal for me(even with play, too uncomfortable).

    He precums quite a bit (which I love, keeps me so eager!) however it is sporadic so I rather not make him uncomfortable in between.. Our sessions are lengthy

    What are your experiences liquid v gel. I noticed some of the brands you mention come in both
     
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    One I tried is called Venus years ago and liked it.
    It gave a bit of a tingling feeling.
    I tried another brand made and sold in Canada longer ago, can't remember the name.
    Usually I don't need it so I can't say much about brand names.

    When it comes to playing with the penis, it's not always about rubbing even though it feels great.
     
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    When we use lube it is usually K-Y Silk.. I like how it feels..
     
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    We use wet silicone. It lasts and not sticky like most and it's great for anal.
     
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    My wife and I have used grape seed oil for years.It's cheap,neutral in taste and works great for hand jobs,anal whatever we want to do
     
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    We love our Astroblide Original.
    It is silicone based and only requires a drop but it makes it all so silky. I need a little to help with my foreskin also certain time of the month her natural lube is very thin and not sufficient. Reducing the friction is one of the reasons or secrets that allows me to last a lot longer than most dudes on here have indicated :)
     
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    I dunno, man... According to some responses to another thread there are guys pulling 9 hour shifts. :p
     
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    Yeah we know of that bullshit.
    What I mean is holding off my own orgasm until my partner has truly been satisfied.
    It is not a competition ever!
    When I know that I have saited her desire is when I allow myself the pleasure of total abandon :)
     
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    Once again, you and I are in total agreement, my friend.
     
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    New member here....I've tried many. Recently bought bottles of slippery stuff gel and sliquid.

    Slippery stuff is pretty good.....no smell no taste. It does tend to get slightly tacky but we've actually wondered if our ceiling fan isn't partly to blame for drying it faster.

    Only used the sliquid once or twice.....awesome so far. Again no smell no taste.

    Prior to these we were using ky....not sure what specific type.....blue top on clear bottle. It was good.