Well! I did it!

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Halogen, Mar 30, 2008.

  1. Halogen

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    So last night, The Boyfriend went where no man has ever went before.




    The Butt.


    That's right, we had anal sex for the very first time last night.

    I'd like to give a shoutout to Bluesy! As we were doing it, I thought to myself, "Okay, Bluesy says that if anytime it hurts, we're not doing it right." That was my motto for the whole experience! I'm so glad I go to this forum - i would've never known that if it hurts, it's not right. So thank you to you guys for being great teachers!

    As for the experience itself? It didn't hurt, actually. It felt WEIRD as hell, but it didn't hurt. The boyfriend LOVED it. I mean, loved it. He wanted to do it again as soon as it was over. :eyes

    Anyway, now that I've gotten over that milestone, when does it stop feeling strange and start feeling good? Thoughts? :brow
     
  2. Caitlain

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    The more you do it, the more you'll get used to it. If you put yourself into a mindset where you want to enjoy it and let yourself enjoy it (for example, if you enjoy being a slut in bed, then tell yourself how slutty it is to take it in the ass), it'll become hotter for you.

    I've always had strong orgasms during anal. If you can reach down and masturbate yourself while you're being penetrated, that might make it even more enjoyable for you.
     
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    My wife prefers the Bullet. The only problem;);)is staying with her when she goes off
     
  4. Bluesy

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    What she said :tup Heelfetish has mentioned that the urge to defecate sensation has lessened with time for him, and this seems to be true for others, as well. Individual anatomical structure makes a difference: some people get a very mild "gotta go" feeling and others feel it very intensely. I can remember a couple of incidents when a butt plug felt too weird to continue with anal stimulation. I know it sounds strange, but rectal sensitivity can fluctuate, so I simply decided to forgo anal play on those occasions. Having a recent BM helps, and as Caitlain has mentioned, clitoral stimulation can make a huge difference. Sometimes anal play feels perfectly wonderful and that's all I want...other times, I get a mild gotta go sensation, but if I use a clitoral vibrator while keeping the anal plug in, it changes the experience entirely and it feels fabulous, I get very intense orgasms that way. There are a fair number of unobtrusive and reasonably-priced clit vibrators on the market now (you can find Pocket Rockets online--made by Doc Johnson--for as little as $10; PM me if you'd like to know where), so there's no excuse for not owning at least one :tsktsk ;)

    You may also want to try it in different positions, since the angle of entry can change the sensation.

    I'm glad it was a mostly positive experience for you :tup
     
  5. heelfetish

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    Excellent post! ::bow
     
  6. Barbwire

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    Congratulations on your first successful butt reaming, Halogen. I am not sure what the proper protocol for such and occasion is. I was thinking a card was a good idea, but couldn't find any at the store that fit. Then, I thought a small gift would be a good idea, but what does one get a person at this time? I dunno.

    Well, none of that seemed like a good idea, so here's half a dozen roses. :rose:rose:rose:rose:rose:rose

    For some reason, roses make me think of anal sex.
     
  7. Halogen

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    I've heard people referring to anal as "stem the rose'. Maybe thats why ;)
     
  8. Bluesy

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    Aw, Halogen beat me to it ;) I first heard the phrase in Brokeback Mountain (wonder if it originated there...?).

    Ok, I couldn't resist:

    [​IMG]

    Hallmark is missing out on a golden opportunity here ;)

    Btw, glad you enjoyed the post, Mr. Heely. *tips hat*
     
  9. Barbwire

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    *thinks frantically about doing something so monumental that Bluesy makes her a custom made picture*
     
  10. Bluesy

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    I have a feeling that finding a suitable picture (that can be displayed in the forums) is going to be something of a challenge :lol
     
  11. Halogen

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    Wow, I feel so honored that bluesy made that just for me [​IMG]
     
  12. Bluesy

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    You're worth it, darlin' :tup Unfortunately, Photobucket took issue with your card for some inexplicable reason :eyes :lol Let's try this again (click to enlarge):

    image removed (I'm sure it's not your fault, Blusey)
     
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    i've been trying to convince my partner to do anal, but i don't think its ever gonna happen
     
  14. JuicyB

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    Lubed finger!

    Start with a finger with her on top while she's really hot! And don't bug to take it further for a long time.
     
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    Congrats on the accomplishment !! I'm Happy 4 you~