we will have sex !

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  1. katy

    katy New Member

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    Me and my new partner have decided that we will have sex. I really want it. My hornyness surpass my worries.

    But, I'm a bit inexperienced when it comes to doing sexual things. I don't know how my partner will take that. So I'd like some guys advice on that.

    When it is a women first time, do you expect her to be good. Or is it okay and enjoyable even though the women is just laying and the guys do stuff ?

    Thanks !
     
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    Katy
    If He knows that this is your first time (And if He doesn't then tell Him)
    He should not expect any degree of perfection.
    If He really loves you He will be very understanding.
    And if He hurts you, Go ahead and cry. Because it will
    set the stage for tenderness for the immediate future
    And that you may need for awhile.

    And If He doesn't understand your problems now
    don't expect any understanding in the future.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    But it"s not suppose to hurt big time right ? Maybe just a bit of incomfort ?
     
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    dont worry.. when i was a virgin, my gf at the time was too.. i was 17, she was 22.. it was nice, very soft, more like a hugging-"with penis in her"..
     
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    Be sure you have some condums, just in case he doesn't. Read a few raw filthy sex stories so you know what to expect. Have some lube with you. If you want to eliminate all the pain, just grease up a long thin cucumber and stick it up there first and undo your virginity.
     
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    Katy Some Girls have pain some don't,
    Some Girls just wanna cry because they are Girls and the joy of giving something
    to the Guy you love that you know that you can never give to anyone else
    or even want to give to anyone else makes them want to cry.
    It just depends on the mood you are in.
    I know that my wife cried afterwards.
    Of course if you are having sex just for recreation you probably wont.
    And I've said to much already

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    Katy

    It seems good that you have waited until you are the age of 20...

    Some young girls give it away too young and then regret it.....:(

    You seem as though you have reached an age which is ideal for you and you have not rushed into it...

    Good luck sweetie....<3
     
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    I agree you should tell him you are a virgin. Also tell him you would prefer more foreplay and take it slow. He will understand, Just go with the flow and you will have a great time. Please post your experience, we all want to know how it went!
    We all love ya Katy!
    Good luck
     
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    Ok. So seriously you guys wanna know the truth ? It felt weird and a bit uncomfortable. Sometimes, as if I was just laying there and he was going in and out of me. I didn't orgasm.

    And when he was penetration it, it hurt.
     
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    Sorry Katy that it seemed so routine for you and was a bit strange. I tried to tell you you should of made ME your first, and I would of done you up right! LOL (just kidding). I guess first times you just never know how the experience will be. Look at it this way, now that you have had sex it can only get better. It sounds like it may be up to you to actually make it better. Don't be afraid to tell him what you like and don't like or he will never know. If you did not cum, well, I blame that on him! What the hell was he thinking! Maybe your new bf is not that all experienced himself, but that could also be a good thing. You can learn together. How long did this experience take? And please don't tell me, oh around 5 min. or I'll have to kick his ass! LOL (kidding). Hang in there girl.
    P.S. Congratulations love!
     
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    No it lasted for about 30 minutes. It was really long.

    He is a lot experienced. I know it and I can just see it too.
     
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    Katy
    I suspect that most Girls do not orgasm their first time
    but don't worry about it as the fear of the unknown
    will hold your enjoyment down and also the pain is
    enough to keep a Woman from having an orgasm.
    Chalk that up to practice, Do not just lay their the
    next time be a part of it and thrust back.


    Ladies on the board a question
    did you cum the first time.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    How long does intercourse usually last normally ? I mean the thrusting and all.
     
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    On your first time, if He was fully aroused probably no
    more than 5 minutes.
    Lets leave the Female time to the Females.

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    Well it lasted long. I can't tell you exactly how long for intercourse only since I don't remember exactly but all the ordeal lasted about 30-45 minutes. But the thrusting was long. Sometimes he was just resting his penis into me (without thrusting) and hugging me and doing me things. Is that usual for men to do that ?
     
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    If He is anywhere near your age and in good health
    that was way to long Katy.
    The love making should last as long as you like
    but thrusting and just resting it that's just to much
    for the first time. And no way should a Man have
    to rest in a single act of fucking.
    Only if he had more than one orgasm.
    Katy please describe what kind of shape he is in.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    He's 26 and in a really good shape. He's muscular and all, athletic. He is able to fuck for long periods of time. Hard and fast and all. He did it to me but he orgasmed fast so it's not like we did that for long.

    He rest in me in the beginning while we cuddle cause he said that it will get me used to his size. I think that's why he did it, to loosen me up a bit.
     
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    Sounds good, But He is 26, Is He married and getting it at Home to.
    that would cause the excessive time used to orgasm. He should not completely stopped for your benefit but slowing down and just taking it easy on you when its your first time
    is a good idea.

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    He is not married at all. He's been with girls before but not now.

    And it didn't take him long to orgasm.
     
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    What the heck, did he even give you any sexual pleasure before thrusting away? You may think he is experienced but it sounds like he still has a way to go. If it were me I would have spent at least this long 30-45 with my head between your legs! Maybe next time ask him for some oral first. The next time you will probably have to set up a video cam to share. That way we could better advise you. hehe, I'm so BAD!
    Thanks for Sharing Katy
    love ya
     
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