We don't 'fit well'

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  1. Benni

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    This happened during my last relationship -- which ended last October.

    One of the things that bothered me was the fact he wouldn't do it doggy-style anymore -- which both of us liked as a fave position. He said "We don't fit well."

    Now, true, I am very short -- 4'11" -- in doggy position there is only about 19 inches from my knees, on the bed, to the 'prize'. We had tried pillows, which I kept falling/sliding off of, so those didn't work.

    So, for a future relationship (if there ever is one), what can be done to solve this issue?
     
  2. lbushwalker

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    Benni, there is always a way but it takes imagination and adjustment.
    Sounds like he had tall legs so had you tried you over a table for instance?
    Sex should not be restricted to the bedroom alone ;)
     
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    Use a big pillow, like a sofa cushion or something.
     
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    let me give this some thought ...i'm an upholsterer by trade...could easily design something that could hold a womans knees up while allowing the mans knees to remain low.while making it all one pc so the womans knees cant slide apart or off of the pads...gonna need a catchy name for it though for marketing purposes :lol
     
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    How about a pair of chaps with boots attached at the proper height?A sex swing maybe?I was 6'1" and she was 4'11" We just used every other position in the book
     
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    We had tried it over the table and over the edge of the bed -- didn't make any difference.

    A sofa cushion could work. They're much stiffer and don't squish in like a bed pillow -- great idea, thanks!

    12barblues -- Great idea! Get on that and I'll buy one! You could call it the "Booty Booster"! :D

    ply -- both of my husbands were 6 foot and we had no problem. This guy is 5'7" and he was a big baby/selfish about sex. Gah!
     
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    ugh I have the same issue!!!

    Im 6'5" (roar, hey ladies), but I always have issues with being to tall and the beds being to short. I have tried big pillows but they never worked. Ill be looking for advise too.
     
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    Maybe he simply was not making the effort and future relationships will be OK. Hard to imagine if a lady had her bum up in the air facing me that I couldn't make it happen :D
     
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    With you being 4' 11" I'd of just picked you up and placed you on it in whatever position you wanted. Simples.
     
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    A petite little lady can be greta fun in bed.Have you ever tried standing 69?She said she got a bit of a head rush
     
  11. Benni

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    Thanks -- I'm thinking the same, he was too lazy. Seems to me most guys would think the same as you. :D
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    MikeH -- that's what my first husband did. hahaha

    Thanks ply! Nope, haven't tried that. :)
     
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    Yeah I can only think much like others in that sounds like these guys just weren't willing to put in a little work to make it work. It really isn't that hard to find ways to make everything line up.
     
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    Thanks Texas Red. :)
     
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    Sorry, Benni........I wondered about saying it but I've always found that if you want to get in easy and quick, that's the way to do it. Also, pretty hard to resist :eyes

    If anything, I've found it to be a position favoured more by men than women.
     
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    Benni,

    I am 6' and my girl is 5'. We fit really well. Have you worked on tuning your position?

    PD.
     
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    If we don't 'fit', so to speak, I like to stand behind and lower my self down by sqauting and enter that way. This works for both taller or smaller partners...

    Hope I've made sense.. ;)
     
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    im 6'5" she is 5'4". Very easy fix. She kneels on the corner of the bed. I stand behind her doggy style with my legs a little wider than shoulder width apart. I can pound away as long and hard as i want. Try it.
     
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    Thank you all for the tips! :D
     
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    I thought you wanted more than just the tip [​IMG]
     
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    I have saw a wedge shape cushion that was made for enhancing sexual positions. Something like it could likely be bought in a regular store that sells domestics and furnishings.

    That said, I am 6'tall and prefer shorter gals and I have never had a problem with this position. Favorite positions can usually be achieved if both partners tweak things a little.

    xx