we cant get the rhythm right help!!

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  1. curious20

    curious20 New Member

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    im new t dis sex game n i need help quick. me and my boyf had sex for de second time las weekend and we jus cant seem t get a proper steady rhythm goin n den if we eventually do he slips out and we've t try all over again. i no dis seems silly but its makin me tink im not doin it rite...di i thrust into him as he thrusts into me?? and is der anythin we can do t stop him slippin out so much. dont get me rong i enjoy de sex but i just know it cud b beter as it feels a bit sloppy, i guess wit time dat will come. me heds rekd as wel cos i havnt come wit him yet thru oral/penetration and im afraid im never going to! i tink i mite b thinkin bout it too much, mayb i jus need to relax n not tink about it...easier said den done. any help at all would b appreciated tanx xx:ugh
     
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    Curious
    Some things are unsaid in your post.
    Is one or both of you overweight
    Is his penis smaller than average and
    more importantly are you both really in
    the mood for sex when you try it, Some
    times we tend to have sex just because we
    can at the time and not because we are fully
    aroused and that could be the reason for
    your fumbling around And of course you
    did say that that was just your second time
    practice in anything makes perfect and that includes sex.
    Really I wouldn't worry too much as the problem
    will probably take care of itself in time.

    Hiker

    PS please use spell check so we wont have to
    fumble around trying to figure out
    what you are saying.
     
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    The solution to your problem is to have a lot more sex. All the rhythm issues will be worked out the more practice you get.

    (To reiterate what BigHiker said, this is an adult forum and as such we strongly encourage our members to write their posts like adults. This includes proper spelling, grammar, and punctuation.)
     
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    Please, please, please, spell and punctuate correctly. I don't have any advice, because that is pretty much something that comes with experience
     
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    English isn't your first language is it? Try wrapping you legs around him so that your vagina is at a steeper angle.
     
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    Spell check works regardless of what
    your primary language is.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    Shouldnt it be regardless

    I remember Hiker when you said to me "learn to spell"

    I always thought I was quite a good one actually

    lol
     
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    im actually a great speller i just write slang because its shorter. if it's annoying everyone that much i'll write proper.
     
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    no hiker none of us are overweight and his penis is of average size. each time we've had sex i felt so turned on, it really is stressing me out that i haven't come, i'm afraid i never will with him. Is there anything i can do to try enhance my chance of me coming? i may be thinking about it too much and therefore i can't let it flow. any advice is appreciated. thanks.
     
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    There is your problem right there. Your never gonna come if you keep thinking why haven't i come yet? A womans orgasm is mental as well as physical thing and your not going to have one until you just lay back and relax and enjoy it. Also a good pussy lashing by your BF helps.

    On the rhythm part of the problem. You've only had sex twice, you two cant expect to be like jenna jameson and peter north in the sack already. Just take it slow for a few couple of sessions until your read to up the pace.
     
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